am i a bad father?

Corbat420

Well-Known Member
LOL seriously, if you think this way you should evaluate your thinking process a little bit.

just because society says its wrong is it? people say i shouldn't spank my child, i tell them they should spank theirs more often.

Society doesn;t know whats right for YOU and YOUR FAMILY. only you do.

P.S: if anyone has a problem with it tell them to phone child services. hes 21 :D
 
If you're using cannabis together, I see no harm in that. Youre both adults and I'm assuming educated enough to make an informed decision.
If you're abusing cannabis together, or it's impacting your relationship in a negative way, then maybe..

I see no harm in father son bonding time over a toke :joint: :D
 

RetiredMatthebrute

Well-Known Member
LOL seriously, if you think this way you should evaluate your thinking process a little bit.

just because society says its wrong is it? people say i shouldn't spank my child, i tell them they should spank theirs more often.

Society doesn;t know whats right for YOU and YOUR FAMILY. only you do.

P.S: if anyone has a problem with it tell them to phone child services. hes 21 :D
haha beat that dam kid lol, i agree people should "spank" thier kids more, or even just fucking punish them period, so many dumb fuck parents out there let thier kids get away with everything with no rules or punishment and then wonder why they end up in jail @ 16

to the OP smoke away man my mom dukes was tokin em down with me when i was 16
 

The Growery

Active Member
just be careful and let your son know that no one is to know of your grow, so fast people would come breaking in to get your pot. but no i don't think it makes you a bad father, I know plenty of father son tokers and they seem to be the happiest comparative to my spoiled rich friends who have a very awkward relationship with their parents
 

ExtremeMetal43

Active Member
No, if he was under 18 it may be different but adults are free to choose. I dont want my son smoking before hes 18 and outa high school but after that hes an adult.
 

ismokealotofpot

New Member
smoking herb with your 21yo is nothing as long as you set a good example. pot isn't bad for you either more people die from drinking coffee.i started smoking herb when i was 13 years old.I didn't have good role models. My mom is kind of a pill junkie and a lab experiment for doctors. my dad did every drug and drank what ever he could find. togeather they were quite dysfunctional in raising children. I can recall when i was child no one remembered to pick me up from karate practice must have sat there on the cement sidewalk for a couple hours. as long as you dont pull shit like that your good.
 

Dakota Big Smokin

Active Member
My father and I never really seen eye to eye never got along and all that stuff but when I was 17 and I went to visit him and he fired up a fatty passed it my way it changed for the better, I hope every son gets to blaze with his father at one point or another its a bonding experience like none other that first time... But now I have to share my trees with him!!! Hahah
 

xRenox

Member
Two pages and no one said. Yes "toking" with your son is dumb. Sorry, just saying. I smoke and my kid smokes. I know he smokes and he knows I smoke...........we dont smoke together. Had a friend of mine start smoking with her son at about 16.............that was dumb.
 

Scabbio

Member
As long as he knows exactly what he is doing: breaking federal law... And why he is doing it: it's our constitutional duty to fight unjust laws by ignoring them. Ethics are tricky aren't they?

Its a fine line between father and friend. to straddle this line is my goal.

*most importantly though*:

The fact that you are even asking the question tells me you are a fine father.
hell, I wish I had a dad like you... :)
 

Clonex

Well-Known Member
Even though my life is ok ,
I would want better for my kids,
Take that how you like ,

If there was a good father guide , I don't think the "Grow and smoke weed together" box would be there to tick,
This could show their ignorance or your tollerance....

Good luck though :joint:
 

Capt. Stickyfingers

Well-Known Member
my 21 year old son knows what i do. i also smoke with him. does that make me a bad father?
You know how many dads get shitfaced drunk with their 21 year old son? And end up fighting with them or getting in a car wreck? I know of a few father/son drunken duos that ended up in the hospital together for both those reasons. I think what you're doing is the mildest form of partying a guy can do with his son. At least you aren't contributing to his alcoholism.
 

ohmy

Well-Known Member
next week the thread will read My kid robed my ass and called cops that i was growing
 
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