Are These The Hairs

i got 2 brown hairs coming out of the stem and yes it allready has the other two thingys hanging off the stem is this the sign for a female.

can ya get a close up pic?
How far into flowering are you?? as if it is female they shouldnt really be red/brown till theyre REALLY into flowering

decent looking plant, but we need a closeup! The hairs will be two white ones at the node, but w/out a pic it's impossible to tell you about yours. find a digital cam and take a closeup of the stem at an intersection close to the top so we can help you.