bringing a baby into this world while growing. opinions please?

Dont start it now, get your boyfriend to grow outdoors for the time being. In a while u might afford a bigger place or even a house then u can do it more hidden away both from child(ren) and visitors.

It's not worth the risk, i know how hard it is and im living by myself and just trying to hide it from some friends is very hard even tho i grow in a big sealed box inside a big walking closet with a locked door, there is stuff like ventilation and stuff buzzing as a faint background noise if u turn everything off in my living room, allso if u have ppl comming over for a while, for example i have a ladyfriend of mine comming over at weekends from time to time to fullfill my "manly needs"...rly fucking annoying to have clones and such that u are supposed to spray like once a day...

With this said i think its gonna be hard to hide.

thank you. an i think that way also. thats why im not all for what he is doing right now in this situation.

If I understand this correctly:

1. Your unemployed boyfriend knocked you up about 5 months or so ago. I didn't see if you mentioned whether this was intentional or inadvertent;
2. He is unemployed. You have some kind of job;
3. You both smoke pot;
4. You both think it's cool to illegally grow pot in your 2 bedroom apartment;
5. He thinks dealing pot will be a nice way to earn a living;
6. You claim to be concerned about the major ramifications growing pot illegally could have on you and your future child;
7. You think there are no negative effects of smoking during your pregnancy;
8. So . . . you seek advice from anonymous stoners on a site dedicated to growing pot.

In my opinion, everything you have disclosed shows you have no intention of getting serious about your life or the life of your unborn child. You don't appear to have the motivation to do whatever it takes, regardless of how it cramps your lifestyle, to ensure your child has every chance he/she needs to have a good life. You should seriously consider giving up your child for adoption. You could prove me wrong, but unfortunately I think you will continue to justify your poor life choices.

pabloesqobar said:

If I understand this correctly:

1. Your unemployed boyfriend knocked you up about 5 months or so ago. I didn't see if you mentioned whether this was intentional or inadvertent;
2. He is unemployed. You have some kind of job;
3. You both smoke pot;
4. You both think it's cool to illegally grow pot in your 2 bedroom apartment;
5. He thinks dealing pot will be a nice way to earn a living;
6. You claim to be concerned about the major ramifications growing pot illegally could have on you and your future child;
7. You think there are no negative effects of smoking during your pregnancy;
8. So . . . you seek advice from anonymous stoners on a site dedicated to growing pot.

In my opinion, everything you have disclosed shows you have no intention of getting serious about your life or the life of your unborn child. You don't appear to have the motivation to do whatever it takes, regardless of how it cramps your lifestyle, to ensure your child has every chance he/she needs to have a good life. You should seriously consider giving up your child for adoption. You could prove me wrong, but unfortunately I think you will continue to justify your poor life choices.

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I don't smoke anymore and she took my advice, I am just a grower and ex smoker, my gf is the smoker. Maybe it makes more sense she took my advice then...

Guess Pablo didn't read the entire thread.

CrackerJax said:

Guess Pablo didn't read the entire thread.

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Probably not and for someone that thinks pablo easqobar is cool, those are some pretty Lean words.

That guy embarrassed colombians, he is the shame of colombia, he is not cool and should not be looked up to, he was a terrorist.

pabloesqobar said:

If I understand this correctly:

1. Your unemployed boyfriend knocked you up about 5 months or so ago. I didn't see if you mentioned whether this was intentional or inadvertent;
2. He is unemployed. You have some kind of job;
3. You both smoke pot;
4. You both think it's cool to illegally grow pot in your 2 bedroom apartment;
5. He thinks dealing pot will be a nice way to earn a living;
6. You claim to be concerned about the major ramifications growing pot illegally could have on you and your future child;
7. You think there are no negative effects of smoking during your pregnancy;
8. So . . . you seek advice from anonymous stoners on a site dedicated to growing pot.

In my opinion, everything you have disclosed shows you have no intention of getting serious about your life or the life of your unborn child. You don't appear to have the motivation to do whatever it takes, regardless of how it cramps your lifestyle, to ensure your child has every chance he/she needs to have a good life. You should seriously consider giving up your child for adoption. You could prove me wrong, but unfortunately I think you will continue to justify your poor life choices.

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1. it was unintentional.
2. i have a part time job, that is all that i can medically work right now.
3. yes, there is nothing wrong with him smoking pot. and neither is there anything wrong with a pregnant person smoking pot. proved medically.
4. i dont think its cool to grow pot in my 2 bedroom apt. he does. thats why i am on here. im trying to show him that even growers wouldnt do it.
5. he thinks that it will be a great way for an extra bit of money. i dont agree.
6. yes, thats why i am on here.
7. i KNOW that there is no negative effects on smoking pot during pregnancy. NONE have been proven before.

i will not give my child up for adoption. im not a bad mother. i know ill make a great one. but thanks for your opinion.

Well to be fair.... if you smoke weed.... ur baby could be born a Rastafarian.

haha. that baby is cute. lol.

well if its a girl, im naming it Marlena.
and her nickname could be Marlee.
lol.
yes, i am infact a HUGE BobMarley fann.

If it's a boy?


Yah, ol Bob died way too young.... another great... Peter Tosh died too early as well, although he was murdered in his own home. Not everyone in Jam land is kewl.

lol. if its a boy, idk yet.
but i have a strong feeling its a girl.
so if i find out it has a penis, then i will have to research some names for a while. lol.

stumps said:

buddy has his card. In wa someone turned in his grow. cops called him said they were comming to check his paper work. then wanted to see his grow. He told them no problem when you get a warrent to enter my house. next day cps was there. Don't know for sure what happened but he is still growing and the kids are still there. he does have the grow under lock and key and the kids are not his.

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Yeah, I know a guy too, same thing cops left his plants and kid. As long as you're legit there's nothing the state can do (that I'm aware of and I've done my share of research)(Afterthought - maybe mother if seperated). I have three kids and I just tell them its a plant that helps my back, and the explain not to tell teachers, friends, cops, etc..

BongBitchh420 said:

lol. if its a boy, idk yet.
but i have a strong feeling its a girl.
so if i find out it has a penis, then i will have to research some names for a while. lol.

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congrats and good luck. Kids are great. By the way, have your boyfriend do a little online research on baby care

Ok just read the whole thread heres my opinion..

Its a HUDGE risk where you live and he shouldn't be growing but neither should half the people on this site. Least according to the laws of our great nation. But even if it was to get him to shut the fuck up about it YOU gave him the green light. Your due in august thats 4 months from now the plants will be done b4 your baby arrives let him finish he will love you more for it. Tell him after this you dont want it in the house anymore untill circumstances are different. When that baby comes his whole fucking world is gonna change if he is worth anything at all it will anyways mine did. But im gonna tell you straight up a man in his twenties which im gonna guess he is cant be told shit. In his mind there is no way he is gonna get caught the people he told WONT tell on him and thats that your not gonna convince him otherwise just not gonna happen. Tell him your gonna let him finish cuz u said he could do it but ASK let me repeat ASK him if after this he wont do it in the house with your baby thats just respect in my opinion. Id respect that and if he cant well hey least you can tell your kid you gave her Daddy a choice and he chose something else not I said he could but changed my mind thats why hes not around.. just my opinion take it for what its worth us men grow up fast when we hold our babies

Would you be worried about my kids if i had a still for making whiskey in my closet...? more likely to ever kill them or harm them than weed. At most they'd steal mommy's bud and flunk out of school and get really fat. ..hehe

As far as mom/mother-in-law.. get a good lock, light proof the closet, and if you can smell it invest in a nice carbon filter.

If the only people who know are you and your husband then there is no risk of getting caught. Follow the rules.. if at some point baby johnny gets old enough to find your secret op.. well then may be the time to bail.. cus whos gonna stop a teenager from smoking readily available pot

Hmm I went to the store in the middle of reading this and i could of swore you said the plants were flowering.....just read ur mans journal though and i see they are not...lol they just fucking sprouted he can still finish 1 month of veg and have 12 weeks to flower should be done in 10 11 but thats cutting it real close babies come early.....tell him to start scouting for an outdoor spot for seriously I was thinking budding plants. but these are seedlings and 4 of em.. tell him to tell his friends they died or something hell if you dont mind what his friends think and cuz its way more believable you got hormonal and blah blah and killed them. he will get 10x more bud if he moves them outdoors once they are bigger difference of like O's to P's that might get his ass out doors. fuck you guys are fighting over plants that arnt even a week old how long ago did you tell him he could do this last week? tell the man to start scouting for an outdoor spot and while hes out there look for a job. between posting on here look on criagslist for one.

BongBitchh420 said:

1. it was unintentional.
2. i have a part time job, that is all that i can medically work right now.
3. yes, there is nothing wrong with him smoking pot. and neither is there anything wrong with a pregnant person smoking pot. proved medically.
4. i dont think its cool to grow pot in my 2 bedroom apt. he does. thats why i am on here. im trying to show him that even growers wouldnt do it.
5. he thinks that it will be a great way for an extra bit of money. i dont agree.
6. yes, thats why i am on here.
7. i KNOW that there is no negative effects on smoking pot during pregnancy. NONE have been proven before.

i will not give my child up for adoption. im not a bad mother. i know ill make a great one. but thanks for your opinion.

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U seriously shouldnt smoke pot while carriying a child or having a child around to inhale the smoke. Its not proven unharmfull, one thing that is proven tho is a study that kids between 10-16 that was exposed to thc have big troubles learning and remember stuff and halts the development in the brain. I'm all for smoking pot but noone under 18 should ever be around it in my opinion. Having a infant in you, sharing your system and getting baked during that time would be on the brink of retardness in my book. Allso ppl that smoked in young age before 18 have reported to be more frequently depressed and cases of psychosis later in life, i will underline that pot linked to psychosis is very cloudy and there is no proof but i say better be safe then sorry. I would never let my future kids touch the ganja before they are 18-20+ bcuz the only thing that is 110% sure that if u are smoking while in adulthood its not harmfull at all, well sure your lung capacity goes down a bit and sometimes a bit absent minded but nothing permanent.

If u rly care about your kid stop smoking during pregnancy, this comes from a guy that smokes at least a gram per day while i got the stuff.

Good luck with everything.

420 swede said:

Allso ppl that smoked in young age before 18 have reported to be more frequently depressed and cases of psychosis later in life, i will underline that pot linked to psychosis is very cloudy and there is no proof but i say better be safe then sorry.

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Sorry, but is there reports, or is there no proof?

I think you already DONE gone and smoked yourself stupid son. Go somewhere else with your lies. I couldnt even be fucked multi quoting the rest of your stupid unproven personal theories on pot use...but i can guarantee that theres no literature on weed altering brain development. (however alcohol and caffeine do!).

In fact, while we couldnt find websites that said "pot makes your kids clever". We found a LOT that said "i smoked pot while i was pregnant (not breast feeding), and my child is very intelligent. Kids talking and walking 8+ months before normal and stuff...If you even TRIED to look up ANY of your "facts" you would have instantly realized it was all bullshit...just go TRY to find real proof..find me a mother who said she regrets smoking weed because her kids are slow or something...

look forward to you finding what my fiancee and I couldnt in weeks, and others in this very thread also couldnt. (Someone else mentioned they had researched similarly to us)

prot3us1- haha. you are amazing. seriously. you always say exactly what im thinking.
yes, i was one of the ones who researched it. my boyfriend and i did. and he wouldnt let me smoke pot until we found out that it was alright to do so.
nothing is wrong with smoking pot while pregnant.

Let me give you the skinny as I am familiar with your situation. I grew for personal consumption through all three of my girls lives from birth through adulthood, but am only now bringing it in the house now that kids are grown. What your man needs to come to understand is that as parents you are GODS!!! What you live, how you live, and how you treat those around you is all about to be under the scrutiny of another human being whose entire life will be permanently affected by EVERYTHING around them. I would say finish your present crop, and reap the rewards. THEN, unless you are lucky enough to live in a state which has decriminalized ( they won't take your kids if grow room looks like you grow only for personal ) or legalized medical marijuana ( always easy enough to find a qualifying condition ) then your guys growing activities need to be taken outside. I have personally grown everywhere from rural settings, where it was a mile or more to nearest neighbor, to right in the dead center of busy city parks ( a real challenge to camoflage enthusiasts ) so I can attest that it can be done no matter where you live. If your season is a short one, then use the equipment already in house to give them a jumpstart on the season. Yes you stand to lose some, why I always had numerous grow spots of 4-6 plants per. Guerilla growing does require a greater commitment, but can either of you live with the major hell that will come if social services gets involved?