You da man thanx soooooo much! She didn't fully break, but bend yes, and shes pretty top heavy. All leaves on top are erect including fan leaves. The sudden change in the color of the hairs freaked me out, mainly because I clipped of few last week just to test it, and the hairs turned within a few hours so I didn't want to let it start to die. i have one I don't know seed and one that's some kind of purple strain. Just trying to get the feel, a little more understanding.