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SomeGuy

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I got one spank, one time and that was enough to know not to fuck around. Before that I remember thinking everything was a joke. Afterwards I knew that what dad (and mom) said goes.
I must invoke fear. Both the kids respond to a certain tone I use... Lol. Wife says they always listen to me...


BTW. We got a new place. Still need to see you soon. I'm off Sunday this week. We move the 7-11th

Shits been crazy... I was so sick a few days ago it was ridiculous. Haven't actually thrown up in the morning and day etc.. In probably a decade. Better now.

Any word? :-)
 

moondance

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@DST I present you with YOUR new and Improved Roll it Up Brother, Thank you For ALL you ALL have DONE for me you just never knew it. I Love You!!!! I got you guys for Life. I am out come after ME!
 

TheChemist77

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I must disagree, even tho I got my ass whopped. I think that it was the best my parents could do with limited education, now we can search google and youtube for basic operant conditioning. Conditioning is kinda like jiu jitsu, where once you experience it and feel it, your sold on it forever.
I think if you reward them for positive behavior and remove pleasures/privelages for negative behavior, there will be better results.
Ever heard of Pavlov's dog?
tried it, kids with add and adhd dont respond..hes so hyper i cant teach him anything as he loses interest in minutes.. he is actually stopping the other kids in class from learning because hes always interupting and running around..im fed up, and dont know what to do..ive spanked him but i feel it hurts me more than him,, i mean he cries but soon goes right back at it..wile i feel bad for hitting him, losing my temper and sick n tired of feeling like a bad father...pluss i hate having him on medications,, i was never near as bad as him, my mom would say wait till dad gets home and i would turn into an angel in hopes of her not telling my dad on me,,of course my dad was a police officer and my beatings were a little more than spankings, im talking punches and belt welts,,i could never put my child through what i had,,but i turned out well..
 

shishkaboy

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tried it, kids with add and adhd dont respond..hes so hyper i cant teach him anything as he loses interest in minutes.. he is actually stopping the other kids in class from learning because hes always interupting and running around..im fed up, and dont know what to do..ive spanked him but i feel it hurts me more than him,, i mean he cries but soon goes right back at it..wile i feel bad for hitting him, losing my temper and sick n tired of feeling like a bad father...pluss i hate having him on medications,, i was never near as bad as him, my mom would say wait till dad gets home and i would turn into an angel in hopes of her not telling my dad on me,,of course my dad was a police officer and my beatings were a little more than spankings, im talking punches and belt welts,,i could never put my child through what i had,,but i turned out well..
I agree with Mo, maybe he is a little more of an athletic person than most. Try graciebullyproof. How old is he?
 

TheChemist77

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hey guys please go to this new forumn i made and give your opinions on ballast types what u use and why,,what is better and why,, please im sure this subject has been covered but i would love to hear what you guys use and your reasoning for it..
https://www.rollitup.org/t/magnetic-digital-or-dimable-ballasts.868785/#post-11541169


i dont get the advantage of dimable ballsts as they shorten the bulbs life,, if that is even true or not i dont know..
anyways everyone please come and give your 2 cents im interested to hear your preferences on ballasts,,, also if your pro cool tube reflectors or pro open reflectors.. both have advantages and dis advantages...please come to forum and give your opinions.. im open to all discusions
 

GemuGrows

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tried it, kids with add and adhd dont respond..hes so hyper i cant teach him anything as he loses interest in minutes.. he is actually stopping the other kids in class from learning because hes always interupting and running around..im fed up, and dont know what to do..ive spanked him but i feel it hurts me more than him,, i mean he cries but soon goes right back at it..wile i feel bad for hitting him, losing my temper and sick n tired of feeling like a bad father...pluss i hate having him on medications,, i was never near as bad as him, my mom would say wait till dad gets home and i would turn into an angel in hopes of her not telling my dad on me,,of course my dad was a police officer and my beatings were a little more than spankings, im talking punches and belt welts,,i could never put my child through what i had,,but i turned out well..
If your kid isnt doing great in school maybe find an "Alternative?" Especially if you feel he is being disruptive to other students. Try and find something your kid finds INCREDIBLY interesting and let him do that. The way I see it, if he finds an interest and learns about it then he learns how to learn and learns the importance of learning. Maybe he isnt learning anything interesting to him at school, but everybody will find something interesting and want to know more about it.

Just a suggestion I don't know the extent of the issues at hand. But I nearly failed high school because I didnt like learning until I started learning about weed, now I love all of learning. I just had to find something that really interested me
 

TheChemist77

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he will be 6 on july 30th..i wanted to teach him to shoot a bb gun this summer but im scared he will shoot me..lol. but seriously im scared..i was taught to shoot at 4 and was hunting by the time i was 7..he cant even go fishing withme yet.. i was fishing as soon as i could walk my dad said...

anyways please give me your opinions on type of ballast n why at
https://www.rollitup.org/t/magnetic-digital-or-dimable-ballasts.868785/#post-11541169
 

GemuGrows

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he will be 6 on july 30th..i wanted to teach him to shoot a bb gun this summer but im scared he will shoot me..lol. but seriously im scared..i was taught to shoot at 4 and was hunting by the time i was 7..he cant even go fishing withme yet.. i was fishing as soon as i could walk my dad said...

anyways please give me your opinions on type of ballast n why at
https://www.rollitup.org/t/magnetic-digital-or-dimable-ballasts.868785/#post-11541169
Honestly maybe just give him some video games? I know they arent the best spend of time but they can be "productive," or they can at least give him something "non destructive" to do until you figure out what productive things he could do
 

TheChemist77

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If your kid isnt doing great in school maybe find an "Alternative?" Especially if you feel he is being disruptive to other students. Try and find something your kid finds INCREDIBLY interesting and let him do that. The way I see it, if he finds an interest and learns about it then he learns how to learn and learns the importance of learning. Maybe he isnt learning anything interesting to him at school, but everybody will find something interesting and want to know more about it.

Just a suggestion I don't know the extent of the issues at hand. But I nearly failed high school because I didnt like learning until I started learning about weed, now I love all of learning. I just had to find something that really interested me
it seems his only interests is playing, and screwing around or his 3DS nintendo... i played outside i never has vidio games,, i caught snakes and mice and rabbits and was never in the house,,my dad would kick us out of the house,,go play,, be back for dinner not 1 minute late or else...that was it and u bet your ass we were home on time...he never goes out, i tried to play ball outside with him and he literally had me so angry i couldve killed him,, not 5 minutes of atention, just running around andd whipping the ball at me...my dad would have literally beaten me to death acting like that... we can not even go out to dinner as a family,,he is loud and just plain unrespectfull...i am lost truly,, i feel like im a bad parent,, and it truly hurts me inside to know that at times i want to hurt him,, that is not wright, no parent should want to hurt their child..of course i wont do it but just knowing i think it hurts..
 

DST

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Alternative suggestion making.....ok, lets not smash that toy against that window, why don't we do xyx instead (desperately trying to show him how much fun xyz is)...my Mrs is great at it, I am, well, ok at it. At the stage we are at if you can't find an alternative to suggest oor yin goes into meltdown.
I find it a horrible thought that kids have to take pills at young ages. My old Man certainly used his hand against us, my big sister more as she used to protect me most of the time, but man, I used to get forced fed at the table only to razz it all back up....take that mofo, lol I aint eating no joints of meat, give me beans!!!:) Sorry to hear about your troubles Chemist77, you certainly have your work cut out! As a parent there is a whole load of sympathy within us for other parents, as well all go through the same feelings to different degrees.

Still feeling like crap, had the worst nights sleep last night. Got my Mum visiting so not exactly great timing. Have a good weekend 6ers.

Peace, DST
 

moondance

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A Michigan 600 Club member please pm me if your close to Pontiac, and will turn my run into RSO for some ones kids for FREE, I am moving to Denver!!!!!!
 
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