Don't use a fake name, that is how orders get lost in the mail, postman doesn't recognize name and doesn't deliver it. The name is similiar to someone up the road so he delivers it there. Someone in the house doesn't recognize the name and throws it away. Then people start blaming the seed company for not delivering.
If you get caught chances are you will get 1 - 3 letters from customs asking if you wish to declare the package before they destroy it. Throw them all away, any return mail and they consider you knowledgable owner of the package. If you want to be knowledgable owner and want to try to claim your package and recover the assets that is up to you but I wouldn't.
Isolated chance that customs will call the local PD and see if they want to do anything with it, if they are bored they may make an issue out of it.
If they do make an issue out of it, this is were everyone wants to argue because the law makes no sense, but it is how it works whether you argue with me or not, they will either send the mailman to your door or have you pick it up at the post office and have you sign for it. Once you sign for it, the law considers you the knowledgable owner of the package. They think that you wouldn't have signed for something that you didn't have knowledge of. So you are busted.
The other problem is when ordering from a different country the country itself declares the package must be signed for to prove customs agents aren't strealing packages, etc. Whether it must have a signature or not you still must go to the post office and sign for it. Now you are nervous because you don't know whether or not to pick it up.
If you don't want your friend to be liable then send it to your house, wait 2 weeks and if the men in black suits don't show up knocking on your door then you are in the clear, proceed with doing whatever you were going to.
That pretty much sums it up.