First of all, I apologize because this is probably posted in the wrong place - but I really wanted advice from Californians only - because I think California is a "different" culture when it comes to mmj. I need help and advice. My family was recently in dire straights and unable to purchase food and pay our mortgage several months ago. It's a long story, but my husband is in a industry that is hurting badly, and he has not been making any money, and he is not very educated so he cannot find a job that will give him a comparable income. I recently found a job (thankfully), but because of that we were unable to qualify for food stamps. My husband knows someone who started growing and selling mmj, and I gave him the green light to go ahead and try it himself - but I was under the assumption that he was going to sell only to legal dispensaries, and to not tell a soul what is going on. The first grow turned out well, but it had some seeds in it, so the dispensaries would not take it- they did say it was a great first effort and to try again next time. We ended up selling to friends and acquaintances but after that he continues to grow and he has have been selling on craigslist.He stipulates that it is for donation and he does verify that the buyers are felllow mmj patients. We have 3 kids and the older 2 know what is going on. I am terrified that CPS will take my kids away, and I feel that it is only a matter of time before he gets busted and our home gets searched and our lives end up in even more turmoil. Sure, you may be able to use the prop 215 defense in court, but that doesn't stop you from being arrested, and your life is still a mess because you got arrested, your name is in the paper, etc.. We have other problems as well, but I think this is the final straw. He says he will not stop, because this is what is paying our bills. I don't care. I would rather move, but he says no. I am at my wits end. Every time there is a loud knock on the door I am afraid it is the police. My husband says I am being irrational. I don't have any friends or family I can talk to about this - I don't want anyone to know, I am ashamed. Someone please give me some advice, I am so stressed out. Has anyone had experience with this? Beyond the obvious problem of my husband being reckless here (or am I being irrational)- there's legal problems too - are people being busted from Craigslist? I have searched and searched and only found a couple stories, but there are hundreds and hundreds of people selling mmj on there.
Also, would you put up with this, or is it better to split up the family? - We have been together for 23 years, and like I said have 3 kids. Ugggg I just wish I had someone to talk to, that can see all sides of this story. Help!
Also, would you put up with this, or is it better to split up the family? - We have been together for 23 years, and like I said have 3 kids. Ugggg I just wish I had someone to talk to, that can see all sides of this story. Help!
