Dating for RIU guys, and girls

FebreezeIt

Well-Known Member
Every one is single at some points in their life, now is one of those for me. I meet a lot of girls on a daily basis. I go to parties and stuff, and always have some great smoke on me. Now as a member I have some little projects best kept as secret as possible. I currently live by myself so thats not an issue at the moment. Its a challenge for everyone in my situation. For those of you in relationships any advice would be appreciated. I've seen so much girl drama at parties and the bars. This is almost a component of relationships, there's going to be some fights that happen. All it takes is a girl in a pissed off mood to destroy all my long hard work. I just read an article on a news engine that had a story of such an incident. Maybe its just an excuse for my pick up skills but its a serious concern I have to think about.
 

rkm

Well-Known Member
Just dont tell her, just because you make it to the 5th date dont mean shit. Say nothing to her, not for awhile, give it some time feel it out. You are in no way obligated to tell her something like this. Your just dating remember.
 

Pseudonym

Well-Known Member
One of my girlfriends doesn't know nor would I ever tell her, even though she has some pretty libretarian views on drug legalization.

My other girlfriend I told her everything one time when I was drunk. I wasn't wasted or anything, and I knew exactly what I was doing. She thought it was cool and was really impressed with how much effort I put into it. However (and here's the kicker), she's pressuring me to stop smoking AND growing because of the fact that it's illegal and also her concerns with my health (but much more emphasis is placed on the legal aspect...something about being a law-abiding Catholic girl). No worries though, she hasn't broken me yet and she's really bad at acting mad.
 
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ORECAL

Well-Known Member
don't say anything.......... when your planning on having her move in with you, then you need to think about it, but until then, she's too big of a risk to tell. once she is in the house with you IE your living together, she is in just as much trouble as you if the cops come in..... unless one of you decides to take all the blame.
 

superhighme

Well-Known Member
if youre just dating why are you even concerned. if your grow room is in another room she doesnt need to be in then you should be fine. if you have good odor control she wont know anyways. I wouldnt tell her anything until you're serious and by serious i mean youve been dating a few years.

personally Ive been in a lot of shitty relationships and for the last 5 years have been in a great one. although its had its ups and downs but all relationships do. Its pretty obvious to tell if a girl is crazy or not.

i mean... not all girls get pissed off and run to the cops.
if you date these types of girls then you get what you ask for!! thats my thoughts!
 

bongspit

New Member
I have been dating the same young lady for 2 years now...she knows I smoke...but there is no way I would let her know I grow weed...I have seen it happen many times, things go bad... girlfriend tells cops...girlfriend destroys plants etc...I have known 2 guys here on RIU that have been arrested because of failed relationships...
 

FebreezeIt

Well-Known Member
But I need to find a girl that's down with the herb from the start obviously. I'll always have the fire dank like its no thang though. Pull some shit like my guy fell through once in awhile to keep her in the dark. There's no way I'd give her "proprietary" information on locations, etc. just for both our peace of mind. I mean how bad would it be if she "knew" I grew but never new where I had my projects, assuming they'll all be not in my house.
 
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