Did I do the wrong thing? Worried sick

Urca

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guess this thread was pointless, as now he doesnt want to do anything with me any more sexually because he doesnt want me to get led on or the wrong idea. but hey, now i have another platonic male friend. dont i have the best luck?
 

Luger187

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guess this thread was pointless, as now he doesnt want to do anything with me any more sexually because he doesnt want me to get led on or the wrong idea. but hey, now i have another platonic male friend. dont i have the best luck?
its not luck. you became too involved and he thought it was getting too girlfriendy. he just wanted to get blown and/or fuck. he got scared and bolted, and now that he is talking to you again, he doesnt want to start the process again, so he says he wants to be friends. this means he wants to fuck someone else.

get over him, live and learn. find another guy. its a lot easier for women. maybe a friend of a friend that you know. someone you get along with. just get drunk with him somewhere and fuck haha
 

Luger187

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i remember in high school days all the stupid shit i worried about. i literally dont think about any of that anymore, and im still in my early 20s. shit changes after you stop living in that seperate culture every day. best advice i can give you is just be yourself and someone will find you. dont expect to find them, otherwise you will cling to every new guy you meet in the hopes that he is that one. if he really is someone for you, he wont like the clinginess anyways. so just relax about it and find a friend.
 

Urca

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eh well shit, i wasnt completely honest about what i posted on this thread today, i was over reacting and assuming shit, i didnt actually pay attention to his words. he said we'll work out what we wanna do, together, but he's not so sure about maintaining the sexual aspect
 
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