Do you ever hang out with people and not really do anything?

ganjames said:

be happy she even wants to kick it with you.
i have very few friends and they're all either married/engaged, and either have kids already, or have kids on the way. not to mention work 5-6 days a week.



i get what you're saying though, people used to invite me over all the time. and all we would do is sit around, or watch tv...
then i just stopped answering my phone until they stopped calling lol.

sometime i'll still get the occasional "is this still james' number" or the spare "merry christmas" from one of them lmfao. i never reply though, is that fucked up?

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meh... ive been doing the same to my so called best friend for a few months. just cant be bothered pretending im a friend person. im willing to accept its wrong though but dont really wanna sit and watch tv with the risk of conversation````

We have a fire pit that we use frequently. We sit around and just watch the stars and swig a little tequila. The fire pit is on the property closest to the river so you an hear the water rushing over the rocks. Usually there's a chorus of coyotes and frogs and the random owl hoot or two.

its called marriage

Stoners don't always make good friends. I have a few stoner friends that I used to hang out with and then stopped for many of the same reasons as other people on here. Well that and the worthless little welfare turds were trying to scam money out of me, all while I tried to help them better their lives and gave them a bunch of help with their crappy grow.

i only hang out with two people that i've BEEN knowing even before we started smoking. now we only hang out really when we gonna smoke or play ball since we got lives. the normal is to sit in the garage and shoot the shit for a few hours. some of the stuff we say is redundant but we'll say some new things like current events and such. the important thing is that we get together to keep that bond going n what not.

I always enjoy someone to share the boring with. Don't need to say shit, matter of fact. Please, don't .

My close friendships. They are the most inane, profane, obtrusive people you would meet and it's those very qualities that make hanging out with them so fun. No need for pretense, just a couple of quirky personalities feeding off each other

I forgot what movie this is from but it goes something like "I have more fingers than friends I trust"

I only have one buddy I consider my good friend.

Our friendship started when we were young, we have a lot in common, and the friendship did not start with partying or smoking weed.

Substance plays a big role, but everyone's different and what I might consider unhealthy other people will deem normal.

To each their own in some aspect of the subject, but if you are facing issues you want answered or resolved you need good advise from either:
(1.) a professional
(2.) Someone very wise who has been taught by living life
(3.) Spiritual self-journey through the use of natural medicine (hallucinogens)

Last time I took mushrooms I confirmed with myself that I am totally comfortable being alone (unlike people I was with)
But I also realized that I wasn't making the effort to be with other people, I had become socially lazy, and when I made the effort I liked the way I felt.

My 2 cents

i seem to go online in phases...where i'm online for days or maybe even weeks at a time, pretty constantly...followed by a prolonged period where i'm NOT or RARELY ever online due to time constraints



With all due respect (and I do mean that, because this is hard to say without offending you)


Maybe you should get more of a life? Some people on this forum seem to be online all goddamn day long and I couldn't imagine them to be very interesting people to meet, with no recent stories or anything to share


Seriously, get off line, go explore the country/world...do your own thing. Then you'll have new and exciting conversation to bring to the table when your friends just feel like sittin back and shooting the shit with you

Padawan you sound like your hanging out with the wrong people, and propably caring too much about how they feel

My close friends and I have no problem sitting around enjoying boredom together. No real conversation other than the occasional joke about someone on tv or repeating what homer Simpson just said and laughing. It's nice to know that there are people that wanna hang out even if neither of you have smoke or beer.