Do you have the Ability?

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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So ive been going through alot of emotions lately because its been 3 years since my best friend (who i knew my entire life basically) was murder'd, and around the same time I had my heart broken by the love of my life (who is now intrested in me again). But ive learned she isnt the person i want to be with but i still kind of love her. So ive been really wondering if i can leave someone behind in my life? Can you do it? Can you just up and not care about someone like you once cared about them? Is this possible? OR am i just acting like a bitch, and i need to man up! Take control! Ha.
 
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buffalosoulja

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I think it depends on the circumstances. If your first break up was bad, then yeah I could (or at least try). But if there was no bad blood, then you know what they say: "If you loose her and she comes back, then it was meant to be". :bigjoint:
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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Hmm if shes loaded then i can see why.. But ive been in rich girl relationships and they are fucking crazy man.... Like wanting my cum to always be inside her (girls are sick) Wow anyways im fucking high as shit.... IM going to sleep hahaahahaaaaaaa
 
eza82

eza82

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Sorry champ........ here`s a bowl of harden up...... Jump in ! Live for the future not the past, you have already convinced your head. So get under someone, its the best way to get over someone else.......
here have a toke :bongsmilie
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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eza82 said:
Sorry champ........ here`s a bowl of harden up...... Jump in ! Live for the future not the past, you have already convinced your head. So get under someone, its the best way to get over someone else.......
here have a toke :bongsmilie
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I'd say true, but than i'd be stupid. Such a defeatest attitude. tisk tisk. Learn alil class :fire:
 
eza82

eza82

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puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:
I'd say true, but than i'd be stupid. Such a defeatest attitude. tisk tisk. Learn alil class :fire:

But ive learned she isnt the person i want to be
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But hang on, are you not taking a step back ward and accepting defeat in your words..... or settleing for whats there and easy. If shes not in your mind right anymore, then would it not be true for me to say that you have accepted the fact the you may not get better??
 
eza82

eza82

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I have been through the same thing and went back.... I regeted it! I was too busy or could not be arsed chasing tail is why......
I stopped being a stoner for a couple of weekends and ended up getting married......
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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eza82 said:
But hang on, are you not taking a step back ward and accepting defeat in your words..... or settleing for whats there and easy. If shes not in your mind right anymore, then would it not be true for me to say that you have accepted the fact the you may not get better??
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The truth is what if i never forgot about her?.... Think about that one
 
eza82

eza82

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Same... Ive got memories of the same female doing crazy shit to me in bed that NO other has come close......... in the end she just was not for me, I wanted a mother to my children and someone I had faith that I would stay loyal to & to me. I still think about WHAT COULD have been but thats what fantasys are for......
I am not saying you should not......... I was just trying to offer suport to your original thread, sounded like you wanted encouragement to be pushed away from her.....
Anyways up to you bro, sorrry I jumped in.
 
itzCESAR*

itzCESAR*

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I don't think you should get back w/ her. Especially if you don't feel shes the right one for you at the time. That's kinda forcing something on yourself, and that's never good. You guys gave it a shot as a couple, and failed. I think it would be perfectly ok to keep in touch, and stay friends. That may sound homo, or cleche, but I don't see why you would want to just kick the girl out of your life completely. Maybe after some bondage she might end up being the girl for you. Then you two can hook up again, and bang the shit outta her. lol srry just had to say it : )
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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I think me being high brought out the best of my emotions tonight. Ive learned alot about women. Ive learned i like wild women. and That i cant have just one. and thats the truth. BUT i still want to believe in love so one day when i can call upon those feeling they are there.

Do you follow me? WHy break down , just to start over? no you make the best of what youve got. and personally she was the best of all that ive found (at the time) so maybe she has changed. Maybe she has become mature. But i dont know. Ill have to find out the hard way i guess, but thats if it goes that way.
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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eza82 said:
Same... Ive got memories of the same female doing crazy shit to me in bed that NO other has come close......... in the end she just was not for me, I wanted a mother to my children and someone I had faith that I would stay loyal to & to me. I still think about WHAT COULD have been but thats what fantasys are for......
I am not saying you should not......... I was just trying to offer suport to your original thread, sounded like you wanted encouragement to be pushed away from her.....
Anyways up to you bro, sorrry I jumped in.
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Thanks man +rep
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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itzCESAR* said:
I don't think you should get back w/ her. Especially if you don't feel shes the right one for you at the time. That's kinda forcing something on yourself, and that's never good. You guys gave it a shot as a couple, and failed. I think it would be perfectly ok to keep in touch, and stay friends. That may sound homo, or cleche, but I don't see why you would want to just kick the girl out of your life completely. Maybe after some bondage she might end up being the girl for you. Then you two can hook up again, and bang the shit outta her. lol srry just had to say it : )
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Aww dude she was hammerd drink patron all night and i was talking to her on the phone. Shes always asking me to go snowboarding with her and her friends, but i havent went yet. We plan on going friday and yeah im def going to man up that night if you know what i mean. Our situation is soooo crazy you have no idea I could explain it but I dont know if you all would understand how i feel
 
eza82

eza82

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Sweet` mate....... just keep your chin up ! Women are design to F@#k men in every way - physically, mentally and finacially !
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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eza82 said:
Sweet` mate....... just keep your chin up ! Women are design to F@#k men in every way - physically, mentally and finacially !
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Thats why i want to be rich before i get married, so that away i fneed be I can have my wife Ex'd out...for a small fee haha jk jk

I think women are our opposites (if your male). Problem is we (men) see a nice body and think love at first site. while women are more mental, thinking about how much they like the guy they are with. they are both a win lose situation but its just who we are. ....Problem is not everyone knows the truth lol


...But im young what do i knowwww haha
 
itzCESAR*

itzCESAR*

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There is no truth my friend, because no one can place labels on females and males. We are all very different, and some chicks think more like "men" than some men think like men. If you wanna put labels on it, everyone's different that's all I can say
 
puffpuffPASSEDOUT

puffpuffPASSEDOUT

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itzCESAR* said:
There is no truth my friend, because no one can place labels on females and males. We are all very different, and some chicks think more like "men" than some men think like men. If you wanna put labels on it, everyone's different that's all I can say
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Haha yeah everyones different :rolleyes:
 
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