Happygirl
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Do I sense a little BDSM?
Do you "like" giving oral sex?
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Sand4x105
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I don't care what others say about this...
I'll just throw in my years of study on this:
Saying you give great head because you were told once... that's not the same as being good, or even liking it....
Dated a girl... "Oh you are gonna like me... I swallow...."
Hoooo hummm.... swallower.... that's just not a turn on... see you are talking about it... it's bull shit....
Plus..... you're proud of the fact and brag about it that you swallow?
Really.....
So later on... "My neck hurts.... hurry up.... "
Never mind.... Swallow your pride, and admit it...nobody's cum in your mouth in years....
Saying you give great.... and giving great....two completely different things....
Is a show of control.... A good head giver loves the control it gives her...
Admit it.... you fems... loud "I SWALLOW" sure you do...
It's all about the control and power it gives you over your man....
Now you want to talk the other kind of giving....
If I have ate 190 of the 200 pussy's that have stared me in the face, and I have been sucked by 90 of the 200 pussy's owners... than I would say the pussy eaters in my world out number the suckers in my world almost 2-1....
Carry on...
Stoney McFried
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No, terribly vanilla.
Doer
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Not every gal will gob the tuber, not every guy will munch the rug.
I'll stick with this. It works for me.
"If you get it, at all, that's good."
kmog33
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I like giving but if she wont reciprocate ill stop giving cuz its bs. My last two gfs stopped giving head when we started having sex. One of them still expected mebto and would occasionally ask or push down on my head while we were making out, it was kind of annoying. I'm about a tradeoff not just taking in relationships, its kind of selfish to expect head but refuse to give imo. I actually had my last gf ask me why she would since the sex was good....what a bitch haha
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Padawanbater2
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I've had similar experiences, which make it much worse by the fact they say shit like "I love to suck dick" before you ever commit to anything.. Then, more often than not they're terrible or somewhat mediocre at best.. I've had one girl who I'd say gave alright head, and it was my first which is likely clouded by judgment.. It's like chicks think giving head is a once a year, birthday, xmas present type thing.. Like if you get a blowjob you better be washing the dishes and worshiping the ground she walks on for weeks after in gratitude.. Such BS when the context is considered..
Like I said before, I love to reciprocate, I don't even have to get anything that session myself to be satisfied. I'm satisfied when I leave my girl with a big smile across her face. But if I never get that same effort in return; go fuck yourself, literally. My mouth is for people who appreciate it. If you want some submissive fuck I won't look down on you for it, but it won't be me.
All I want is a little goddamn effort.. Feminism has instilled into some women of my generation that sucking a dick is comparable to being on a leash with a bone in your mouth, which is so goddamn stupid. Feminism compares women to dogs, not men.
kmog33
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I agree with most of this. The only girls ive met that are awesome at giving head were girls that were also pretty slutty lol. Also ive noticed girls that smoke cigarettes usually like giving head.
The only part that throws me off is the feminism part here. Imo anyone who believes women and men should have equal rights is a feminist, which i do believe. I think what youre talking about is sexism where someone is actually biasing towards that side. I guess it depends on the extreme. Im all for equality, but if a girl wants unequal treatment I feel its bs. Equal rights means i can pay for a girl and open doors for her and in this case go down on a her if i want to, thats my choice, but when she starts to expect a me to do things for her that she doesnt do for me... its like some women want only the beneficial rights, not all of the shitty ones also, which is not equality, it is trying to be spoiled and doted upon which is really selfish and bitchy lol.
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Hookabelly
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LOL, saves on clean up
Stoney McFried
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I really prefer giving head to fucking anyway, but that's in part because I have no guarantee of cumming myself, so I'd much rather not get the cooch all nasty for nothing. That being said, I really do enjoy giving head. It IS a power thing, but it's also a pride thing, knowing you can make someone feel that good, watching them go "Wow!" when you really get going. I have a hard time getting off anyway, but I really won't get off if I can't at least suck dick a little before we screw. I never did like getting eaten, but that's probably because I don't like to surrender and I have my own issues anyway. I've been told I'm rather excellent at it, and I believe I am, but that's because I listen to my partner and watch their responses to stimuli. Everyone is different, so there is no one blow job fits all. Some guys like a lot of tongue while you go in and out; corkscrewing around the shaft, flicking the frenulum, pressing the vein on the underside. Some don't seem to notice all the fancy shit you do with your tongue even if you tie their dick in a knot. Some like their balls sucked or gently cupped- some do not want their balls touched at all. Some like the slightest hint of teeth, but I've only ever had one guy who liked this, so I'll assume it's fairly rare. Some like the added pressure of your hand as an extension of your mouth- and this is a great way to get that "deep" feeling for girls who either can't deep throat or who have partners with elephant dicks. I have no problems deep throating, but it's a learned thing- you depress the back of your tongue in your mouth and it gives you more room back there. Take a deep breath before hand and work it in gently as far as you can. If you think you're going to gag, you probably will- so just relax the back of your throat. It's the same muscles as when you make an "H" sound, so practice the sound "huh" to get a feel for what muscles you need to use. Use your hand if you have to, or try lying on your back with your throat elongated. I usually give head with the guy lying back and me in between his spread legs. This gives me access to the rest of his genitals and body- guys like it when you rub their thighs and play with their nipples too-use your hands! When you get their cock in the back of your throat, try to "grab" it or squeeze it gently with your throat muscles. Twist your head, like you're screwing their wiener into your tonsils. Combine this with a tongue rotating around the shaft or licking the balls if you have a long tongue. Breathe through your nose and take it slow. Most of those blowjobs you see on pornos are not good- it's fun to go fast sometimes, but you'd be surprised how many guys have never had a good, leisurely blow job where you draw out the sensations and really figure out what feels best to him. If you don't love doing it in the first place, you probably won't care to slow it down anyway. I've found that caramel ice cream topping is a good way to relax the pace, because it takes forever to lick off. Ask him if he likes what you're doing. And back him off a few times. While you want him to cum eventually, what you're really doing is learning what does it for him, and trying to maximize pleasure. When the balls draw up against the body, he's close, so stop and kiss his thighs a while, let him calm down. If he's really close, gently pull the balls away from the body and squeeze under the head of his dick between thumb and forefinger. The vein going crazy is another good indicator of impending orgasm, as is increased firmness of the dick. If you give good and free head and don't use sex as a weapon, then he's gonna do dishes once in a while without you even asking.