Do you think you can be hung up on someone your whole life?

Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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This problem plagues me...

I was with this girl when I was 16, spent a year and a half with her and we broke up.

Since then, I've had one other significant relationship and a few other momentary flings with a few other girls, but none of them have measured up to the way I felt about that first girl, emotionally or physically.

I feel like I had the best there is and now nothing else will measure up. I think I've felt like this for a while, subconsciously, but have only recently recognized what it is...


What the fuck should I do about this??
 
NLXSK1

NLXSK1

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Padawanbater2 said:
This problem plagues me...

I was with this girl when I was 16, spent a year and a half with her and we broke up.

Since then, I've had one other significant relationship and a few other momentary flings with a few other girls, but none of them have measured up to the way I felt about that first girl, emotionally or physically.

I feel like I had the best there is and now nothing else will measure up. I think I've felt like this for a while, subconsciously, but have only recently recognized what it is...


What the fuck should I do about this??
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What you need to realize is that you can find that in other women, just like finding a good friend. The key to this is volume. Try to meet as many women as you can for the chance to find another one as or more amazing than the first one.
 
BakedinBC

BakedinBC

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it sucks man. same kinda problem im facing, having trouble moving on, worst part is i talk to her still every day.
maybe things will work out, maybe not.
but no matter WHAT you think, there are ALWAYS other girls out there that you will be just as happy with, even though at this point it seems impossible to imagine.
 
tinyTURTLE

tinyTURTLE

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Louis541 said:
Try banging that senior citizen that wanted your wiener.
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goten

goten

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Louis541 said:
Try banging that senior citizen that wanted your wiener.
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done did !!!

you will get over it

i was with my ex wife for 12 years

when we split i was crushed at first

but then different women came and went since then

and now she is just like fucking nasty to me

now i got this really cool chick that im with

and when im with her its like nothing else matters ( besides my kids ) but you know what i mean !!

eventually that right girl will come and she will make you forget about your past women !!!

stay strong my man cuz women can drive you fucking crazy if you let them !!! :peace:
 
Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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My most current/ex chick makes me question if I can ever even love a girl like I did the first one again.

It's been almost a year, she said "I love you" about 5-6 months in, I still haven't said it because I don't think I know what it is and I don't want to lie to her and tell her I love her without being sure about it.

It feels like I can't reach the point of infatuation with this girl, where I only want to be around her and nobody else, hook up with her and nobody else, am constantly thinking about her... like, that stuff just doesn't happen to me, and I don't think it's the girl, because like I said, there's been 4 of them, all the same, and all ended because of this issue, none of them measured up...


Fuuuuuuuuuuuck...
 
thewinghunter

thewinghunter

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find another chick to have a crush on... onc eu find one, you forget abt the old girl
but when u break up with the new girl make sure u dont start wanting the old one again

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS have 3-4 girls on ye rback burner so u dont have too much time on yer hands after a breakup

dont let some girl f*k yer lif eup
 
mrbunny

mrbunny

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I'm a fan of therapy...sounds to me like you have (insert psychobabble here) unresolved issues about losing her that you just keep rehashing in your head. It's really easy to say get over it or move on...it's not so easy if you're stuck in a loop. Going to a therapist isn't weakness or failure...it's getting a pro to help you work through stuff you don't have a handle on. Finding a good one can be a real bitch tho...a lot of therapists are pretty fucked up themselves. I don't want a 'friend' for 100 bucks an hour, I want a professional. Good luck man.
 
Lil Czr

Lil Czr

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Man, if you love the girl you've got to go after her.

If it doesn't work out at lest you won't have the regret of never trying.

I say go for it.
 
whietiger88101

whietiger88101

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Do you honestly want to forget about your very frist real love ? even i still think about my first love. I found out getting married and having children help mend your heart then all your think about is your kids and how wonderful it feels to be a father or a mother. Love will last forever a heart never stops beating until it takes its last breath.
 
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Smokeypapa

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Padawanbater2 said:
My most current/ex chick makes me question if I can ever even love a girl like I did the first one again.

It's been almost a year, she said "I love you" about 5-6 months in, I still haven't said it because I don't think I know what it is and I don't want to lie to her and tell her I love her without being sure about it.

It feels like I can't reach the point of infatuation with this girl, where I only want to be around her and nobody else, hook up with her and nobody else, am constantly thinking about her... like, that stuff just doesn't happen to me, and I don't think it's the girl, because like I said, there's been 4 of them, all the same, and all ended because of this issue, none of them measured up...


Fuuuuuuuuuuuck...
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What, are you like 16 or 17 years old or something? There are plenty to take her place.
 
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