Sitting back & studying Human Nature can be a good, entertaining hobby,.. & educational. Physically, make a list of the drawbacks, greed, jealousy, desire to be important... ETC. These personal traits are not lessened by "Friendship". Sorry, but that's the Nature of the Beast. Look at the failures of Business Partners & Marriges. The Prison Term "Fall Partner" also comes into play. I was raised where passing a joint was a social thing. My fuck up was that I maintained the same mind-set when growing. "Dudes, come check this shit out!!." WRONG. Write this on your wall. "Good intentions is the road to Hell".
Let's say 7 months to grow. 7 months bet that nobody will want to feel important & brag about the IMPORANTT info that they, alone, retain. That goes against Human Nature. It's not even fair to put that burden on somebody for no reason, whatsoever, other than to feel important. So the primary cause for getting busted (80% derives from people talking), is our own weakness to "show off". Can't blame them for the same. YES? Brag on this site, that's our safe outlet. To do it right, no Family, Visitors, Friends, emergency power people, Meter readers, etc. can see , suspect or know anything. Get your priorties right. The gain is great, but the social cost is also very heavy. There is no setting on the fence, burning candles at both ends on this subject. Do 2 to 10 if these facts are not decided upon.
You guys are bumming me out, why is there so many people so untrustworthy for ? I guess that is why I don't have a lot of friends because if I don't trust them I don't consider them friends. If they are jealous they should ask how to grow their own, much better idea than trying to steal from your buddy. That is just pretty low in my book.