I wouldn't ever fuck around with a woman with kids. They become part of a problem and a headache. Plus I am not a fan of kids, never want them No disrespect, and I have nothing but admiration for the hard work they do and the real father's who do step up to take care of their non biological children.
but we all have stories. One of my oldest, desperate friends always finds the most deplorable mothers to date. I hate the term welfare queen, but he found a perfect conservative poster woman. She doesn't work, and is on disability for no reason (seriously she practically admits to just going on it for additional income), won't work so she can have section 8 housing, is on food stamps, two different baby daddies, one who pays, one she doesn't know... to kick it off, she is an opiate addict, legitate scripts but is always looking for more as she runs out and sells other pills to buy what she wants. i really feel sorry for her beautiful daughters.
Now the poor bastard of a friend has become baby daddy number 3 in the next couple months. She emotionally abuses him, takes his keys, goes through his cell phone, seems to fight with her almost daily. This friend of my can barely take care of himself and never plans for the future and is always financially fucked.
I did piss her off when I had a conversation with my friend about "making sure it's his", as i suspect she still is fucking around with an ex who's a drug dealer of hers. why my idiot friend told her that is beyond me, but I get some crazy call from her. I said hey, some one has to look out for him, apparently he isn't.
It's really sad at the end of the day for the children. I honestly can't even pretend to be happy for him.