double checking its male before chopping

my first grow and sadly it appears to be a male but wanted to be sure

I don't see anything yet

Neither do I.

maybe pic is too fuzzy but right next to the stipules is a stem with a lil ball on it one on each side of stipules altho this spot is only place on entire plant i can see it

ok ......1 u have red stem ...............u are lacking in NPK one of those.............2nd i see what u are talking about but do this right let it go for a week 10 days if it is male u will see the flower start then u know it male for sure ...........and do not forget u could have a hermi so let the flowering start..........u will see the different shape and get the male out of there before the pollen sacks open so u are safe

Maybe you should just add more pics ...but nothing so far!!!

Looks like a plant in veg to me.