easy for someone to say who is not directly affected by their words or actions.Yeah, I know. It sucks. But consider that some of the better charities/organizations have boards packed with old folks. Institutional thing. I have found that bad ideas don't really change, but people with bad ideas eventually die like the rest of us. So what I am suggesting is that you not give up on these organizations. Make your voice heard. Drop in a note. Write a letter. I support the Scouts but I also raised a ruckus. They are going to do the right thing, eventually.
telling my mom she cant give money to help others because shes gay hurts.
getting fired from jobs because shes gay hurts.
where was our help when she was jobless and could barely keep the heat on in the house?
i prefer NOT to support people who look at my mother like shes a horrendous person because she likes the same sex. there are other charitable places that we can help out