Ramen Shaman
Well-Known Member
Okay, guys. I'm feeling a bit confused about all of this, and the whole conversation sounds a bit pubescent and immature.
My best friend of several years means the most to me. He's always there, and we never have a bad time.
But he has a girlfriend of three years. Personally, I and all my friends think she's an utter bitch. Really mean, rather stuck-up, and so passive aggressive it's not even funny. It seems like most of the time my friend barely even tolerates this girl, much less loves her.
Over the past six months, I've slowly felt more than just friendship for this guy. He and I really care for each other in that lasting way. I know he doesn't think about me in terms of a relationship, but, hell, what should I do?
Have you guys ever been in similar situations? Did you go through with it and talk about your feelings with the person? How did it turn out?
My best friend of several years means the most to me. He's always there, and we never have a bad time.
But he has a girlfriend of three years. Personally, I and all my friends think she's an utter bitch. Really mean, rather stuck-up, and so passive aggressive it's not even funny. It seems like most of the time my friend barely even tolerates this girl, much less loves her.
Over the past six months, I've slowly felt more than just friendship for this guy. He and I really care for each other in that lasting way. I know he doesn't think about me in terms of a relationship, but, hell, what should I do?
Have you guys ever been in similar situations? Did you go through with it and talk about your feelings with the person? How did it turn out?