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rkm

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Seamaiden said:
I get the feeling this is a pattern. And so, I'm a little surprised that they're not a bit sick of this by now and have not written her off. But, we don't know all the intricacies of their relationship with their mom, and she is still, after all, their mom, so I understand that they can't just shut off caring about her or loving her.

Still, what she's doing to them is downright cruel. Yeah, they're not "little" kids, but still.
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No its not been a pattern, this is the first time she has took off and never said anything or talked to the kids while she was gone. The kids are old enough to pretty much understand everything she has done in the past, but they always give her the benefit of the doubt. This time, might be the straw that breaks the camels back with them. I dont say anything, they are old enough to make their own decision without me planting ideas. I let her dig her own hole with them, my help in that area is not necessary.
 
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rkm

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MasterNuggets said:
go talk to her mother.
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I have, but she knows nothing either, so she says. I feel as if she does know something but refuses to be forthcoming with the info. I think they had an argument and the grandmother is afraid of her own dirty laundry being brought up. I dont exactly see eye to eye with her as it is. The grandmother has a deep resentment towards me that puts the blame on me as the cause of all my ex's problems. Yeah, I caused her not to want to work and to be lazy.
 
NewGrowth

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rkm said:
I have, but she knows nothing either, so she says. I feel as if she does know something but refuses to be forthcoming with the info. I think they had an argument and the grandmother is afraid of her own dirty laundry being brought up. I dont exactly see eye to eye with her as it is. The grandmother has a deep resentment towards me that puts the blame on me as the cause of all my ex's problems. Yeah, I caused her not to want to work and to be lazy.
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I'm telling you dude call blockbuster and tell them you need to change the address on your card, act like you are her. I really don't know how they do it but they always seem to find people.
 
Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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She prolly just figured they were old enough to handle it now.
rkm said:
No its not been a pattern, this is the first time she has took off and never said anything or talked to the kids while she was gone. The kids are old enough to pretty much understand everything she has done in the past, but they always give her the benefit of the doubt. This time, might be the straw that breaks the camels back with them. I dont say anything, they are old enough to make their own decision without me planting ideas. I let her dig her own hole with them, my help in that area is not necessary.
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