i just read your journal it was pretty cool. in order to "get seeds" you need a male to polinize a female. THe female is the only plant that will produce seeds anyhow... Since you have a male and males do not produce buds, they produce pollen sachs which do not contain THC, or tetrahydrocabnol, which gets you high so what i am saying is cut it down but make 100% sure its a male first, since your growing in a comp tower i would recomend getting a feminized strain from a seed company, that way you wont have this problem, cause if you wanna sex the plants yourself more space is usually helpfull, not that you couldnt do it but it would be moer difficult then if you had the room.