flowering question?

So i had this little guy (maybe 15inches or less) that was pretty spindley and not much of a plant, that started flowering by accident. Turns out my little guy was a little girl. I was pretty happy and not expecting to much from a thing i found and threw in a pot, judiging when i tried to really grow from seeds etc. they all were dudes.

either way, so its flowering and i see probably 15 to 20 sets of white hairs, and its growing a bit. (the new leaves ony have 3 leaves on them, is this odd?) I can also see crystals forming on some of the leaves. But there is really nothing that resembles buds. I saw the first whites about 3 weeks ago maybe? a little longer. not quite sure. i know its early so im not worried ,but my concern is, some of thos (maybe 5-10 sets) white hairs have already turned red or shirvled small. Is this normal for the first ones? or is this bad bad bad?!! I have no idea what to expect. I can see there are more hairs getting ready to form so i dont know what to do!!!!

Thanks for the help
MD

How many sets of leaves did it have and what kind of light is it under? Any way you can post pics?

I have to ask is it SURF or is it FISH ?

Tell us about your setup, could you post some pictures of your plant ? Edit; like he said above

yes yes, definatly will post pics when i get my camera tomarow!
i honestly couldnt tell you, and ill have to go count. Its only under 3 cfls.
ill let you know more tomarow, so please check back!