For me, when something gets better, another thing gets worse. Anyone else?

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Sr. Verde

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So recently, some good things have been happening, and I feel like my life is beginning to fall into place. But THE same day those good things come together, I get notified of something terrible that is going to be difficult to overcome. The bad thing is going to have me worrying for months too, little chances of me coming out of it okay.


My whole life has been a struggle, I've been waiting for it to even out, so I can just chill out for a few years and be a normal person, but I just don't see it happening.


Does anyone else notice how, far beyond their control, an almost equal amount of bad things happen when good things happen?

Life sucks :neutral: I'm so close to giving up.
 
smokinmayne

smokinmayne

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your not alone mane

some days are worse and some days are great

but then a string of days start getting worse and so on

fucking life eh
 
hempstead

hempstead

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Shit happens and karma is a bitch. No matter what, life is gonna deal you cards that are hard to play. But it always helps if you avoid short cuts and do to others how you would like done to you. Keep focus with plenty of goals and good stuff will happen. And people who do bad things tend to have bad things happen to them. I speak from personal experience man. I was once the prick doing the bad things and treating people like shit thinking it was the worlds fault and FTW. I see things differently now that I have grown and achieved some wisdom. I do good and good shit happens. Try it, you will be ok.

And to all the assholes who stand in your way on the way up, kill em with kindness. They will get theirs, don't worry.
 
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Sr. Verde

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mickyjuice said:
2 words.. Go Camping. For at least a week.
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Yeah like I said in the +rep thats a real good idea, except, I don't have a week off :\ Week-END, yes...

hempstead said:
Shit happens and karma is a bitch. No matter what, life is gonna deal you cards that are hard to play. But it always helps if you avoid short cuts and do to others how you would like done to you. Keep focus with plenty of goals and good stuff will happen. And people who do bad things tend to have bad things happen to them. I speak from personal experience man. I was once the prick doing the bad things and treating people like shit thinking it was the worlds fault and FTW. I see things differently now that I have grown and achieved some wisdom. I do good and good shit happens. Try it, you will be ok.

And to all the assholes who stand in your way on the way up, kill em with kindness. They will get theirs, don't worry.
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Thanks dude, but I'm a good person, always helpin people out, giving rides, going to my old connections for good prices and driving across town to hook up a friend in need with no profit on my part or gas money, smokin everyone out all the time (high people are happy people) holding doors, keepin shit to myself, trying my best to ignore idiots and assholes... I'm a really chill person with good karma I think... I take shit out on myself - - - it's one of the few things I got goin for me


But still, shit keeps piling up
 
hempstead

hempstead

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Sr. Verde said:
Yeah like I said in the +rep thats a real good idea, except, I don't have a week off :\ Week-END, yes...



Thanks dude, but I'm a good person, always helpin people out, giving rides, going to my old connections for good prices and driving across town to hook up a friend in need with no profit on my part or gas money, smokin everyone out all the time (high people are happy people) holding doors, keepin shit to myself, trying my best to ignore idiots and assholes... I'm a really chill person with good karma I think... I take shit out on myself - - - it's one of the few things I got goin for me


But still, shit keeps piling up
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It can only get better.
 
Biggravy22

Biggravy22

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Sr. Verde said:
Yeah like I said in the +rep thats a real good idea, except, I don't have a week off :\ Week-END, yes...



Thanks dude, but I'm a good person, always helpin people out, giving rides, going to my old connections for good prices and driving across town to hook up a friend in need with no profit on my part or gas money, smokin everyone out all the time (high people are happy people) holding doors, keepin shit to myself, trying my best to ignore idiots and assholes... I'm a really chill person with good karma I think... I take shit out on myself - - - it's one of the few things I got goin for me


But still, shit keeps piling up
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I find it takes longer for good Karma to come around than it does Bad Karma. Keep a positive outlook, that's the only way you can accept a blessing. Take whatever experience and turn it into a positive learning experience. There's a saying about a carrot, egg, and Coffee.

Once the carrot is boiled it turns to mush
Once the Egg is boiled it turns hard
Once the coffee is boiled it turns into something beautiful and tasty.

Which are you gonna be?
 
CLOSETGROWTH

CLOSETGROWTH

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Sr. Verde said:
So recently, some good things have been happening, and I feel like my life is beginning to fall into place. But THE same day those good things come together, I get notified of something terrible that is going to be difficult to overcome. The bad thing is going to have me worrying for months too, little chances of me coming out of it okay.


My whole life has been a struggle, I've been waiting for it to even out, so I can just chill out for a few years and be a normal person, but I just don't see it happening.


Does anyone else notice how, far beyond their control, an almost equal amount of bad things happen when good things happen?

Life sucks :neutral: I'm so close to giving up.
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Dude, I know exactly what your going through.

Hang in there, Things will be ok.

We all go through this.

Life does suck at times, But life is what you make of it.

I know it can be a never ending rollercoaster.


Brush yourself off, and be a one manned army!!! BE STRONG! :mrgreen:

Its a battle, but there is light at the end of the tunnel!!! And in the growspace. :idea:

Take a deep breath and relax.

I've almost given up myself, but glad Im still here :)

Once your gone, you'll never know how good things could of been..Ya know.

Good luck man :)
 
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hempcurescancer

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May not seem like it man, but there's nothing that isnt under your control. Take a week or two off, I think someone said go campin, clear your head, you'll come back a lot more better off.
 
RC7

RC7

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i feel u man... i guess that's just how it goes... Just keep your head up cuz for every dark night there is a bright day...
 
sunni

sunni

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it happens to everyone when shit goes go shit goes bad
and when shits really bad something good happens
just the way is gotta get positive and roll with the punches
 
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Sr. Verde

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Thanks guys I appreciate the kind words, stoners truly are the most compassionate people....


(lol I just added the word stoners to my Firefox dictionary 8) )
 
jfgordon1

jfgordon1

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It's alright brother. I think someone said this.. but the best thing to do is think positive. (Really fucking hard sometimes, i know)
 
streetlegal

streetlegal

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sup st verde, like the great band Poison once sang
"Every rose has its thorn....":bigjoint:

Honestly tho homie, im the king of shit life, nobody wanted me wen i was growing up, i was beat around n shit, done the rehab stint etc... but um, life is wot u make it man, 'think positive' bcos this shit life is very short and one day its over, and all of these bad things wont mean shit, so make good memories.
 
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guitarabuser

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That's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Yes, things get bad and then get good. That's perception at work. If you can step back from events you see things differently. It's not always possible, but when you can it smooths out the roller coaster.
Think of it this way: The optimist says the glass is half full. The pessimist says it's half empty. The dude with perspective says it is twice as big as it needs to be.
 
Mrs. Worm

Mrs. Worm

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This is the story of my life. 5 steps forward, 10 backward. A few good things happen, 1 bad thing happens that blows those good things out of the water. BUT, I do believe everything happens for a reason. Maybe to prepare us for things to happen later in life, maybe so we can help people later with the same/similar problem... there could be plenty of reasons. Stay strong, stay positive, and don't give up. Good luck!

Edit: I ALSO believe you can't TRULY appreciate the good without the bad.
 
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