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GanJulia

GanJulia

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What do you guys think of the whole, sex without strings attached deal?

I have a good friend of mine whos been hounding me to hook up ever since we did a month ago, and I know he wants us to do the whole F.W.B. thing.. I've done it when I was younger and in really stupid/bad situations.. so now that im older, and he's mature (and single) im thinking sex without strings attached would be fun? I'm in now way interested in him emotionally, I enjoy that we just like to fuck.


Good deal right? Orrrr? :o

Edit - going to the gym, im excited for responses when im back :D :clap:
 
Kevdank

Kevdank

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well it seems that both of you understand it is just about the sex and if your both fine with that I dont see a problem.
 
Sr. Verde

Sr. Verde

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I've never seen it work well

hard for people to separate sex and emotions

There leaves a lot to be desired is all, on someones end, every time
 
racerboy71

racerboy71

bud bootlegger
there is nothing wrong with fwb.. the only down fall that i've ever encountered is that usually one person will start to get feelings for the other, and therefore will want it to be much more than fwb.. not to say that people can't just have sex and not have it go further than just sex, just that it usually leads to one of the party wanting to take it to the next step, and when the other person doesn't feel the same way, they end up getting hurt over it.. and you've already said that you don't see this person as relationship worthy.. you've just got to make sure that they understand this and you only want to have an occasional romp in the hay with them.. even with everything being out in the open at the beginning, sometimes feelings are developed and it tends to get very complicated at this point..
just my two cents on it..
 
Serapis

Serapis

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As long as you film it and share with the community, I don't foresee any problems..... sexers away! :)
 
wyteberrywidow

wyteberrywidow

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racerboy71 said:
. even with everything being out in the open at the beginning, sometimes feelings are developed and it tends to get very complicated at this point..
just my two cents on it..
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I was going to say the same thing what may start out as just a fuck will end up a relationship.Trust me i know
 
wyteberrywidow

wyteberrywidow

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Im sure at one point you will get jealous at the fact he will be fucking someone else and so will he things will be really really awkward!!
 
theexpress

theexpress

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GanJulia said:
What do you guys think of the whole, sex without strings attached deal?

I have a good friend of mine whos been hounding me to hook up ever since we did a month ago, and I know he wants us to do the whole F.W.B. thing.. I've done it when I was younger and in really stupid/bad situations.. so now that im older, and he's mature (and single) im thinking sex without strings attached would be fun? I'm in now way interested in him emotionally, I enjoy that we just like to fuck.


Good deal right? Orrrr? :o

Edit - going to the gym, im excited for responses when im back :D :clap:
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dont let him stretch ya out too bad before i can get it in!!!
 
Louis541

Louis541

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`SoA || Asi said:
dude dont say shit like that ^
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yeah, you're talkin to dude's E-girlfriend. :p

but really, it's not gonna work. It's gonna be a downward spiral until you get to the bottom, but the trip there will probably be fun as hell. Is it worth the friendship? if so go for it.
 
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incognegro999

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This has both worked and not worked for me. 1. make sure it is KNOWN upfront that nothing is expected to come from this. 2. verbally repeat #1 often. 3. Dont make it obvious if you see other people besides this one. 4. this is just me, But I would refrain from spending the night or having them spend the night UNLESS drinking is involved. 5. The minute feelings, jealousy, other people get involved I pull the plug.
 
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