wyteberrywidow
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Its only family no friends.If u wit me that means you my brother.
Fuck friends
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doowmd
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That's wat i thought! lmao.....but anyway it ended up being pretty interesting w/ ppl comparing how they feel about others. I've never been able to have any close friends. most of the ppl i'm around aren't into the same shit i am....smoking, mma (watching lol), etc., and i also feel like you can't trust just anybody......i've had what i thought were close friends over the years, only to have try n fuck my old lady or actually fuck her behind my back.......but that's more of an issue w/ her, but being friends, really close friends w/ ppl is a process that takes years of building up trust, respect, even (in a non gay way all u gutter thinkers) caring (about feelings, well being, etc.) and since the bad experience i've had w/so called "friends" i don't feel like devoting that much more time out of my life, only to later have realized most all ppl are backstabbing assholes when the right opportunity occurs! Don't get me wrong, there are a few out there who aren't complete pricks behind your back, VERY FEW! So at the end of this long winded reply, all i'm trying to say is i agree w/ the op FUCK FRIENDS!!! But don't let that be a reason to quit being a nice person, if the only reason we're nice to others is becuase we expect something back from others (wheather that be kindess in response or a reward) then we're being a fake nice person to begin w/. u know wat u are. everyone has the ability to look inside their self and bring out the good......but so few do it makes ppl feel the way most of us on this thread do!
eyes ableed
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Real fucking talk, you let someone get to close to you that youve grown up with they see your doing better then them...bam, it hits you these negative motherfuckers are in it for themselves when youve been there boy this whole time and been real with it and went on limbs to help everyone out to get talked about behind your back cause your shining... story of my life guys, real people like me and you only exist in small numbers. What ive come to the conclusion of is, have hobbys social ones where you can meet skaters/mountainbikers/snowboarders anything your interested and when your with these people talk like you dont have anything and enjoy what you share in common and thats that dont let anyone in just have that dude to call yooo you wanna go skate youll enjoy the reality of things better this way. lose the lames
I despise fair-weather friends and assholes!
RC7 you're not the only one that feels that way. Other than my girl friend I don't know anyone i can call a true friend. I still want good pals like i had when i was younger. But until we leave this city/state that won't happen. I get shit on all the time for being nice,when I'm in public at stores or where ever, i see the subtle amount of hate in their eyes. My girl says "just keep smiling and being polite" lol
RC7,keep being nice.Don't let them tear you down to their level. Remember, evil/bad people/friends want you to feel the way they do.
RC7 you're not the only one that feels that way. Other than my girl friend I don't know anyone i can call a true friend. I still want good pals like i had when i was younger. But until we leave this city/state that won't happen. I get shit on all the time for being nice,when I'm in public at stores or where ever, i see the subtle amount of hate in their eyes. My girl says "just keep smiling and being polite" lol
RC7,keep being nice.Don't let them tear you down to their level. Remember, evil/bad people/friends want you to feel the way they do.
RC7
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Thanks man, yeah I'll always be a nice person its just not in my soul to do wrong... i could never be that way. I'll continue to be nice , i just don't take any shit. Aint it funny how the good guys always seem to get the worst.... its all good though at the end of the day you gotta realize who you are, and remember your a good person.
a dog named chico
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Friends are just people who haven't cut your throat yet...
spacebrain
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yes im with you on that one dudeSo i'm tired of trying to be a good person and getting nothing but bullshit in return..i say fuck friends. My whole life I've Tried to be a good person, always been respectful caring and thoughtful to everyone i know even strangers. I'm finally at the point where i'm sick of being fucked over or used by worthless "friends" and my piece of shit "family" so the only friends i have now are you guys here on RIU...does anyone feel the same or is it just my bad luck...?
littleflavio
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the only thing i feel like my real friends right now are my 3 dogs. my family is fcking me up and everybody seems to just dont care what happen to u
elkins
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i feel ya..i use to have a big trust fund when i turned 18..well when my money ran out..where was they then>>>??i asked one of them to load me 50...they said man i dont have it right now, then his girl friend turned right around and said jay just one over 500 on the poker machine last night..lol, damn that burns me up
bigv1976
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I think the biggest problem is most people call someone their friend. I have 2 true friends. I fuck one and throw a ball for the other. A friend is someone that you know as well as you know yourself and you can without a doubt trust with the most secret and intimate parts of your life with zero fear of betrayal.
Dropastone
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My dad always told me when I was growing up.
Peace.
As a young kid I thought he was crazy because I had more friends than what I knew what to do with at the time. 25 years later, he was totally right. As of right now all those people I thought were my friends were only acquaintances in my life and were not friends at all. Today all I can count on my hand is one person that I call my only true friend.
Peace.
wyteberrywidow
Global
Like i said before I consider close friends my family and yeah i only have a handful of those.Anybody else are associates.
RC7
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Yeah i agree, if i couldn't call a person my FAM then they aint my friend either...i dont let phony ass people into my life anymore, they just want to feed off of u like a leach, and even when it makes me happy to lend a helping hand, nothing is ever returned, not even a thankyou...
wyteberrywidow
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RC7
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Thanks you too man