fukd myself.....again

Jakabok Botch

Jakabok Botch

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hey, i know you guys dont really want to hear this....but i have nobody to talk to and kinda need to vent a lil........my girl left me this mornin, over the phone while im here out of town. see, every day for the past 8-9 months iv been havving these very nasty dreams where she was cheating (like every past relationship) so i guess by talking about them with her (trying to make my self relax and feel better-cuz i knew better-) i was bein an asshole and callin her a slut (not literally). that and i got upset when she promises to call me in an hr and i dont hear from her in 2 days.....but i am just an asshole....


again...i know most of you dont care....but thx for letting me vent....
 
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redivider

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screw that bitch.

if a woman is really into you she's into you. a woman that doesn't call back, a girl that says she's in love but always wants to be going out with 'her' friends, that's just a slut.

i've been cheated on and it's always the same story. best thing i did to get her back was 1) i said i was going to a bar so she could meet up w me... when she arrived she saw me hand in hand with another, more attractive girl (VERY IMPORTANT< this girl HAS TO BE HOTTER, believe me, it'll feel goooood)... 2) i hooked up with another girl she knew i liked since before we started dating. it wasn't even on purpose, we were just at the club, shit happens... and get this: they rode together to the club, and girl B left with ME.

payback's a bitch when your a slut girls.... :) :)
 
TheJointProject

TheJointProject

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Sounds like she's the one with the problems, not you. It hurts now but sooner or later you'll see that this was probably for the best. Smoke a bowl & hit a bar. Find yourself another girl, someone on the same page as you. Good luck bro.
 
jamaicanskunk

jamaicanskunk

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take the OJ road. kill her. but were gloves that are too small. Right casey anthony she can provide a few pointers i'm sure. Just drown the bitch and dont say nothing for a while
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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well not everyone cheats so you need to trust people or forget about having a relationship. you will make the girl miserable (& you will be mierable too) if you're always accusing her wrongfully. i've never cheated on a bf.
 
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redivider

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fuck that...

as far as your concerned she was cheating... lol...

there's plenty of fish in the sea my friend....
 
DSB65

DSB65

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Let things cool off ...then go do some major ass kissing...if not read post above...
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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The fault could lie equally with the both of you:

You acknowledge you may be a little paranoid or controlling, but perhaps you are being a little hard on yourself. But for a man to admit his misgivings is admirable in itself. For that you get a cheer up kiss.

On the other hand, I don't know this girl- she could have given you very good reason to be suspicious of her in the past, or perhaps she is too easily distracted while you're away. Maybe you leave her too much.

I have a guy friend I am madly in love with. I act like his faithful puppy always taking his side, helping him with relationships even though I want him, being his shoulder to cry on, cooking/cleaning for him and running to his house on a 2 hour bus journey up to 5 times in a week- but someone hearing just one side of the story (like if I should turn up to his place late or not call back when I said) to someone hearing that --> I <-- would sound like the one being a total bitch. You see?

All you can do is learn from the experience and take that with you into your next relationship. I'll say again, I admire your honesty with yourself and not blaming it on the fact that 'bitches be crazy' . Thankyou for having your own capacity for critical thinking, though the majority of RIU users are male and will immediately say your 'bitch' must be crazy.

But you, from what you say, I don't think you're an asshole at all. An asshole is remorseless- you are a stand up guy <3
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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Any time hun ^^

Now you proudly hang your open for business sign and hopefully you will fimd a girl who will never make you doubt but always make you smile inside :3

Now go and have yourself a spliff, it's time for my bedtime blunt...

Love and kisses <3
 
GreatwhiteNorth

GreatwhiteNorth

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Girl, you should hang a shingle outside your door. :lol:
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xKuroiTaimax said:
The fault could lie equally with the both of you:

You acknowledge you may be a little paranoid or controlling, but perhaps you are being a little hard on yourself. But for a man to admit his misgivings is admirable in itself. For that you get a cheer up kiss.

On the other hand, I don't know this girl- she could have given you very good reason to be suspicious of her in the past, or perhaps she is too easily distracted while you're away. Maybe you leave her too much.

I have a guy friend I am madly in love with. I act like his faithful puppy always taking his side, helping him with relationships even though I want him, being his shoulder to cry on, cooking/cleaning for him and running to his house on a 2 hour bus journey up to 5 times in a week- but someone hearing just one side of the story (like if I should turn up to his place late or not call back when I said) to someone hearing that --> I <-- would sound like the one being a total bitch. You see?

All you can do is learn from the experience and take that with you into your next relationship. I'll say again, I admire your honesty with yourself and not blaming it on the fact that 'bitches be crazy' . Thankyou for having your own capacity for critical thinking, though the majority of RIU users are male and will immediately say your 'bitch' must be crazy.

But you, from what you say, I don't think you're an asshole at all. An asshole is remorseless- you are a stand up guy <3
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fishwhistle

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If your havin that dream every night theres probably something to it,meaning shes probably enjoying some strange cock(50-50 or better chance),trust your intuition,your first gut feeling is probably the right one.By the way do you happen to have a pic and a cell# for her?
 
brandon.

brandon.

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Did I understand correctly from your first post that you've been cheated on multiple times (in different relationships)?
 
*BUDS

*BUDS

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Jakabok Botch said:
hey, i know you guys dont really want to hear this....but i have nobody to talk to and kinda need to vent a lil
........my girl left me
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this mornin, over the phone while im here out of town. see, every day for the past 8-9 months iv been havving these
very nasty dreams
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where she was cheating (
like every past relationship
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) so i guess by talking about them with her (trying to make my self relax and feel better-cuz i knew better-)
i was bein an asshole
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and
callin her a slut
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(
not literally
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). that and
i got upset
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when she promises to call me in an hr and i dont hear from her in 2 days.....but
i am just an asshole
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....


again...i know most of you dont care....but thx for letting me vent....
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I think i would dump your ass too. Bro you have to chill out with a woman and trust her, otherwise it has no chance. You will be fine in a couple of weeks just like a shocked plant.
 
brandon.

brandon.

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*BUDS said:
I think i would dump your ass too. Bro you have to chill out with a woman and trust her, otherwise it has no chance. You will be fine in a couple of weeks just like a shocked plant.
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You definitely have to extend some trust to your female. They don't mind hearing about dreams like that, but you have to let them know you don't really feel that way. If you really do feel that way, you need to get your head in check. Always extend your female the amount of trust they extend you.
 
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