sarah22
Well-Known Member
well, im going to put in my 2 cents here and say that i dont see it as gay at all.
in my opinion, a person who is truly gay, will have *romantic* feelings for people of the same sex. not just *sexual* feelings. to me, sexuality is not necessarily tied to romance. people experiment with all kinds of different things sexually. it doesnt mean that they're going to do those things all the time, just that they were trying it on for size.
so if it was just an experience in exploring sexuality then no, i dont see that as being gay. now if you were to end up preferring the same sex and developing relationships with members of the same sex, then i would see that as gay. and its totally cool either way
in my opinion, a person who is truly gay, will have *romantic* feelings for people of the same sex. not just *sexual* feelings. to me, sexuality is not necessarily tied to romance. people experiment with all kinds of different things sexually. it doesnt mean that they're going to do those things all the time, just that they were trying it on for size.
so if it was just an experience in exploring sexuality then no, i dont see that as being gay. now if you were to end up preferring the same sex and developing relationships with members of the same sex, then i would see that as gay. and its totally cool either way