Gay or not?

well, im going to put in my 2 cents here and say that i dont see it as gay at all.

in my opinion, a person who is truly gay, will have *romantic* feelings for people of the same sex. not just *sexual* feelings. to me, sexuality is not necessarily tied to romance. people experiment with all kinds of different things sexually. it doesnt mean that they're going to do those things all the time, just that they were trying it on for size.

so if it was just an experience in exploring sexuality then no, i dont see that as being gay. now if you were to end up preferring the same sex and developing relationships with members of the same sex, then i would see that as gay. and its totally cool either way

sarah22 said:

well, im going to put in my 2 cents here and say that i dont see it as gay at all.

in my opinion, a person who is truly gay, will have *romantic* feelings for people of the same sex. not just *sexual* feelings. to me, sexuality is not necessarily tied to romance. people experiment with all kinds of different things sexually. it doesnt mean that they're going to do those things all the time, just that they were trying it on for size.

so if it was just an experience in exploring sexuality then no, i dont see that as being gay. now if you were to end up preferring the same sex and developing relationships with members of the same sex, then i would see that as gay. and its totally cool either way

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Fuck this shit....brotha if you in any way shape or form considered thiskiss-ass...then your a fucken homo...I dont care either way but dude your a piper...or a pipee

if you fuck an animal makes you gulity of beastiality, if you fuck a dead animal your a necrophiliac...if the cap fitz, then wear it proudly brotha....not my cup of tea I like a nice wet beav myself but if cock is your tea then crumpets too you and cheers and whatever the fuck else.... "Mas "putooooooooooooooo".....

fuck semantics....potatoe, potato, tomatoe,tomato, cock in the mouth or thought of=super queer...anyone that says diffrent...blow me

yo man if you want to get your cock sucked and it dosnt matter if its a dude or a chick, than your not gay, your bi

but thats only if you go through with it

if you do it and only fuck dudes exclusively then it would be gay

in my oppinion, you already have a streak of homosexuality, because you watched porn with another dude and because thought about him sucking your dick more than once.

so go for it man, like someone else said; its not wrong to be gay. its also not wrong to like blow jobs

dont get me wrong im from the Gay mecca of the world San Fran...been around it my whole life...have gay friends...so im not anti-gay,homophobic.....just anti someone debating whether it makes them gay...no debate...your gay...or bi i guess...

sarah22 said:

well, im going to put in my 2 cents here and say that i dont see it as gay at all.

in my opinion, a person who is truly gay, will have *romantic* feelings for people of the same sex. not just *sexual* feelings. to me, sexuality is not necessarily tied to romance. people experiment with all kinds of different things sexually. it doesnt mean that they're going to do those things all the time, just that they were trying it on for size.

so if it was just an experience in exploring sexuality then no, i dont see that as being gay. now if you were to end up preferring the same sex and developing relationships with members of the same sex, then i would see that as gay. and its totally cool either way

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but, thats why its hetero- and homo- SEXUALITY, not homoromanceality

KaleoXxX said:

but, thats why its hetero- and homo- SEXUALITY, not homoromanceality

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lol lol....

I say if you are interested, go for it. It is the only way to figure out if you like it or not, to figure out who you are, per se.

I speak from experience because I am a 20-something male and I (used to, pre-couple life) love to suck cock. I am not gay, but I still have the urges, even though I am in a relationship with a girlfriend whom I am going to marry. But I realize it is some primalistic urge, and I suppress it. I went through the military seeing lots of cocks, and it never bothered me, but I liked the way other guys cocks looked. I admit I am bigger than most, but not judgemental or anything, nor am I proud.

If I were single I wouldnt have a problem giveing someone a blow job but I am really OCD picky so my experiences have been limited. You might find out a different side of yourself. Or at the worst, its only getting head, you could pretend you are asleep or something.

Im reading this shit and im just like wow...

lololololololol

This shit is funny

qptyqpty said:

I say if you are interested, go for it. It is the only way to figure out if you like it or not, to figure out who you are, per se.

I speak from experience because I am a 20-something male and I (used to, pre-couple life) love to suck cock. I am not gay, but I still have the urges, even though I am in a relationship with a girlfriend whom I am going to marry. But I realize it is some primalistic urge, and I suppress it. I went through the military seeing lots of cocks, and it never bothered me, but I liked the way other guys cocks looked. I admit I am bigger than most, but not judgemental or anything, nor am I proud.

If I were single I wouldnt have a problem giveing someone a blow job but I am really OCD picky so my experiences have been limited. You might find out a different side of yourself. Or at the worst, its only getting head, you could pretend you are asleep or something.

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Hey dude, it seems like this thread never ends. Not sure if you read earlier, but I did go through with this. I triped on shrooms with the guy and we and mutual sex. I no longer consider myself str8. Bi, maybe gay. Either way I do not care.

But you really seem to like cocks from what you say. At the very least you must be bi. Str8 guys don't "love to suck cock" Just realize this urge will never go away even after you are married. Do you think you can refrain from possibly cheating on your future wife for the rest of your life?

qptyqpty said:

I am a 20-something male and I (used to, pre-couple life) love to suck cock. I am not gay..... But I realize it is some primalistic urge, and I suppress it.

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You are gay and so is the other gay.....
and thats cool .... just accept it....

My question is do woman get this primalistic urge were talking about???

If so:
God bless people who do....
Gay or straight.....

i got to page two and was like.. this guys gay.. i made it to page 2..lol

ok well im gay and its suppressed and whatever if you want to be technical but I love the pussy and monogamy first and foremost fo what class is that? lol. my point is go with what you like, each and every one of you. Anyone else's opinion of what you do so long as it doesn't harm anyone else should be the least of your worries. Water off a ducks back man. Let the hater's hate, That's how you know you doing your job playa. I got mine ><

And to the primalistic urges of women I would have to say women are just as every bit as horny and kinky as men, its getting worse (or better, however you look at it) with every generation too. A lot of women experiment with homosexuality in their 6-13 years, and then during the college years again. I think its more of a socially ingrained thing programmed into our primitive heads to have the women familiarize themselves with their working bits. Maybe guys do it too. Personally I was having such bad luck with women I decided I would ride the cock and see if it was my style, or if it was any better.

Well, I am sticking with the pussy, put it that way. Encounters always wierded me out, but I have the fantasies now and then. Make me gay? I dont think about it because I don't care lol. I have had several girlfriends who were bisexual, and though they would talk about eating pussy now and then they never seemed to urge for it. But that's only my experience. Never looked into it =)

qptyqpty said:

ok well im gay and its suppressed and whatever if you want to be technical but I love the pussy and monogamy first and foremost fo what class is that? lol. my point is go with what you like, each and every one of you. Anyone elses opionion of what you do so long as it doesnt harm anyone else should be the least of your worries. Water off a ducks back man. Let the hater's hate, Thats how you know you doing your job playa. I got mine ><

And to the primalistic urges of women I would have to say women are just as every bit as horny and kinky as men, its getting worse (or better, however you look at it) with every generation too. A lot of women experience with homosexuality in their 6-13 years, and then during the college years again. I think its more of a socially ingrained thing programmed into our primitive heads to have the women familiarize themselves with their working bits. Maybe guys do it to. Personally I was having such bad luck with women I decided I would ride the cock and see if it was my style, or if it was any better.

Well, I am sticking with the pussy, put it that way. Encounters always wierded me out, but I have the fantasies now and then. Make me gay? I dont think about it because I dont care lol. I have had several girlfriends who were bisexual, and though they would talk about eating pussy now and then they never seemed to urge for it. But thats only my experience. Never looked into it =)

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That's all cool guy. Best Wishes. Anyone else out these who dealing with any of these issues?

It's kinda of funny, but some folks in the tokin' culture are NOT the coolist when it comes to smoking. . . POLE

So I invite anyone who ever has thought about, has once or twice, use to, or is like super scared of sex with a guy to tell your story.

Have you ever been in love with a guy? Did you ever have a guy suck you off? Did you suck a guy off? Sex with a neighbor? Sex in the military? Are you married? Divorced? Molested as a youth? In the closet, or out?

For us bi and gay guys in the tokers cummunity, it is helpful to hear from others. If you want to protect your online personna, thats cool. Just make up a different identity.

Also, isn't it time to have a topic area in the forums for GLBT stoner disscussion?

Let's hear from you folks.

ps. I would like to hear from women too. No intention to slight you, just so many guys on here you sometimes forget!

guys should be with gals, unless your parents forgot to tell you. i think homosexuality is wrong, and disgusting. that being said, i have no problem with gay folks. i wouldn't go out of my way to befriend a gay person, but then i wouldn't swerve my car into one either...

yeah if your thinking about it, your gay side is winning, IMO i wouldnt let me or think bout letting him..but in your case you mise well let him or you'll have that thought of "what if" lol have fun and just imagin a females lips

This shit is freaking funny as hell. Should i or shoulnt i woops too late i did it. I guess that makes you a cocksucker then. LOL

Silky Shagsalot said:

guys should be with gals, unless your parents forgot to tell you. i think homosexuality is wrong, and disgusting. that being said, i have no problem with gay folks. i wouldn't go out of my way to befriend a gay person, but then i wouldn't swerve my car into one either...

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silky shagsalot says: you're a wrong, disgusting, perverted freak who's parents raised wrong.

but he doesn't mind you so much.

feel better now?