Gf or garden

elixxrx66

Member
seriously though Do you live with her? Were you already into growing when you met her or did you start up after you two became bf and gf? If you answered No and yes to those two questions respectively then I'd say she doesn't have much right to tell you what to do. If you answered yes and then No to those two questions I'd say she might have a point.
 

zeus2025

Active Member
lol, let me tell you from experiance here little one.... give it 10 years and their body means NOTHING.

this is NOT a tuff choice. give THIS relationship 10 years and you have no grow, no friends, a bitch for a wife and worst of all, NO LIFE.

take this as what it is. advice from someone who has been there.....

Hey thanks man! This is the kind of answer I was looking for among all the others this is one of the best responses, especially if your speaking from experience! It's lookin like she's gonna go. I'm prolly gonna wait till after valentines day though lol.
 

zeus2025

Active Member
seriously though Do you live with her? Were you already into growing when you met her or did you start up after you two became bf and gf? If you answered No and yes to those two questions respectively then I'd say she doesn't have much right to tell you what to do. If you answered yes and then No to those two questions I'd say she might have a point.
It's my place that she would be moving into. Before we even started the relationship I showed her what was up. Told her I had patients and I was legit. She expressed she had never smoked but didn't tell me how much she hated it. The answer is getting easier everday especially when I look on this thread lol!!
 

zeus2025

Active Member
my husband gets kind of mad at me if I spend too long in the tents among the plants...but as long as he isn't being neglected he seems to be alright with it.
I wonder if this is the reason why she hates it so much more than what she showed before. It may just be a jealousy issue that has escalated to this lol.
 

Bernie420

Well-Known Member
If you have patients and a legit as legit can get then tell her to pound sand.

She is trying to change you.
You will end up hating her for not letting you grow.
She will hate you for not getting her way and it isnt about where to go for dinner or something like that for the night. Its growing in the next room everyday.
Its always going to be in the back of your mind and it will start arguments.


I dated a girl once and didnt like me smoking the weed. Hated it and got pissed off about it. I didnt do it around her but it did start arguments between us. That was a long time ago and I cant even remember the reason we broke up but the bottom lines was.

She never accepted me for who I was. And always hated that one thing I did.
 

elixxrx66

Member
if you told her what the deal was from the beginning, that's how you make your living and she is moving into YOUR place she has absolutely no right to tell you not to grow weed. I would tell her that you really don't want to make that decision but if she puts you in that position then she isn't going to like the answer.
 

elixxrx66

Member
Do you love her? Is there a compromise perhaps? Maybe you can keep it out of her sight and out of mind. If you love her I don't want to be the one to tell you to dump her but I really do think that is unfair of her to make you make that decision. Besides if that's what you love to do and that's who you are and she makes you quit you are just going to resent her and it will cause problems later.
 

elixxrx66

Member
It sounds to me like it became a problem because she is going to move in. You could tell her that you love her and want to be with her but that you're not ready to have her move in and live with you because you're not ready to quit growing weed yet
 

permat

Active Member
Never date a non pothead bitch.

Kick the Ho to the curb, but your already fucked up and broke the golden rule dont tell anyone.... women are ruthless and if your a medical user I think your fucked she will either snitch you out or tell the next cock she is doing about your grow and his buddies will rob you.
 

dozer777

Active Member
I personally wouldnt wait till valentines day!Do you know thats the best time to hit your local or,not so local bars.Any chickipoo out there on valentines nite wants to play!Bring yourself 1 joint of killer find the one.See if she wants to get higher 6.5 BILLION people half women do the math bro! Good luck! Bring er home!
 

SirShmokeAlot225

Active Member
Never date a non pothead bitch.

Kick the Ho to the curb, but your already fucked up and broke the golden rule dont tell anyone.... women are ruthless and if your a medical user I think your fucked she will either snitch you out or tell the next cock she is doing about your grow and his buddies will rob you.
Well idk where he's from but a nice .45 bullet to the face as soon as they enter the house is how you solve the robbery problem lol.
 

Thedillestpickle

Well-Known Member
I personally wouldnt wait till valentines day!Do you know thats the best time to hit your local or,not so local bars.Any chickipoo out there on valentines nite wants to play!Bring yourself 1 joint of killer find the one.See if she wants to get higher 6.5 BILLION people half women do the math bro! Good luck! Bring er home!
Dude... is that a pet pig?
 

dozer777

Active Member
YES that is actually DOZER! He is 18 now.I bring him indoors during the winter.Trained just like a dog.In his prime he would whip any and i mean any dogs ass!I had a 140lb german rottie that the pig almost ripped his guts out!Bad assboy.He is actually very friendly though loves beer and bud!You have to watch him or he will steal both,lol
 

AltarNation

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Yo I didn't read 10 pages, so I don't know if anyone's said this yet, but... there is a third option, which is don't roll over and accept her ultimatums. You need to get on top of this in terms of psychology. What you want to do is tell her you need her to sit down for a frank and rational discussion of the situation. You are legal. It is harmless. She HASN'T EVEN TRIED IT. At the VERY least, you have a huge amount of leverage for compromise in a debate. (There is a lot of leverage in insisting she try it before she deny it, so to speak) At the MOST, I would go ahead and tell her that she's being unreasonable for judging something she doesn't even know through experience. If you can get her to try it, you could turn your whole world around.

Don't take her close-minded thoughts and just accept that that's how she is. Give a shot towards opening her eyes and doing the world some good by changing a close-minded person into a more open-minded person. Talk to her about it. MORE. Talk about it. Communication can cure any ailment in a relationship. You can work it out without simply going to an ultimatum, if you both want it to work out. If she subconsciously prefers to destroy you (you never know...) then she might insist on an ultimatum... but if she is a kind and understanding person, she will work towards some form of compromise. She's presenting you with two polar options. Explore the middle ground, always. If she can't grasp the concept of exploring the middle ground, you probably don't want her around anyway. It really depends on what kind of girl you're dating...

My 2 cents.
 
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