Girlfriend making me choose between her or weed!

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i was in that spot once...I think of her every now and again.

StealthAssassin said:

I have been dating this girl for a year. I have been smoking weed for the last 14 years, but never more than on the weekends. She noticed me smoking every weekend for the last few weeks and has now cracked it and said that its her or the weed... The thing I don't get is that I cannot see it harming me at all. I do smoke on my own, but Only on the weekends. I have 2 jobs, heaps of cash, grow my own weed, barely get through an ounce in a year, am sociable and very highly qualified (I am a doctor). I just don't see what the problem and am thinking seriously of dumping her and doing weed. It's not that I don't love her, I just feel like she is being unreasonable and if I let her stop me doing this then she will remember and allways know that she can controll me for ever... Anyone else have any advice? I don't know what to do!!!

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fuck her good and hard and tell her to take her snobby judgemental ass to the road and find some hot chick the smokes...lotsa them out there

StealthAssassin said:

Thanks so much for all the advice everyone. Just to answer a common question, the reason she doesn't like it is because it is illegal and she thinks it will ruin my life. Where I live, if you are caught with up to 50g of pot you may get a fine or warning but it is not a criminal offence and you will not go to court. I never grow over 50g and never sell so I'm pretty much safe. I also never smoke unless I have the next day off work.

I took all your advice on board and told her that I choose to smoke weed and thats final. I explained all the reasons why it's not a big deal but it's like she is brain washed she won't listen. Anyway right when I thought we were about to break up she caved in and said that I could do what I want and she trusts me to not let it take over my life! I am stoked, now I get to keep my girl and I can keep smoking I just hope it lasts and she doesn't go back on her word...

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She's female ..she will flip on you again...its their nature

mabe have her try it . which she wont . tell he its like people drinking a few drinks on a weekend, if you hide it from her she will find out and leave you , idk man , im glad im not in your position tuff to give advice on this, only you can make the correct decision ,

we agreed to do it every 6 weeks and she said she will try it with me too it is something we can both live with, I am willing to give it a shot as I do love her. Time will tell if things work out!

She is willing to give you up for an ounce a year? Oh, wow. And you love her? Sounds like she might not love you that much. In these ages, her way of thinking is very unintelligent and uneducated. I'd say she is lacking in some character quality. It's probably a moral issue for her where she had been taught that all drugs prohibited by men's laws are bad. Do you want to marry such a square pants? probably. but you will be so bored with her. Educate her and make her watch some documentaries on Netflix and you tube. If she tries to stymie you now and you let her get away with it, it wont be the last time she tries to control you. Maybe you like being controlled? If not, you will lie and sneak so she doesn't find out. And I'll bet she is not willing to make good on her threat. I would have said call her bluff and see what she does but you have made up your mind on that 6 weeks then get a treat because you are a good boy thing. here is where my edit starts. lol...sorry I should have read the other posts. so she went from giving you up to trying it with you. lol maybe she will change her mind entirely if she watched some documentaries. Have you seen any of them on Netflix? really great food for thought to be had. and I didn't mean to sound judgemental I was just being flip.

So now you agreed to go from every weekend with MJ to once every 6 weeks? She has got you my friend, you better get a prenup!