Pretty much everything you said is false, or misinformation.
Raw milk from pasture raised, grass fed cows is a super food. You've been lied to, mostly by vegan idiots, but also by those who want you and your family to be devitalized, dumbed down, and not a threat. It is this way with pretty much all industry and food.
https://www.westonaprice.org/health-topics/making-it-practical/milk-it-does-a-body-good/ <- Not the dairy industry.
Curious about organic raw milk and its health benefits? This site will answer all questions you're likely to have about unpasteurized milk and then some!
www.raw-milk-facts.com
Goats milk is ok but it's not the same. I know because I've raised and milked goats too.