NevaSmokedOut
Well-Known Member
do you believe true love is possible or is getting some no different than smoking to you?
I think love is a possibility. IMO the trick is to not be in too much of a hurry, and to not just latch on to the first person who happens to come along. I've seen it plenty of times. People get lonely, they want to be in love right away, they think it's time that they got married... and as soon as someone comes along, they're willing to overlook all kinds of problems in order to achieve their goal. Take a lot of time to really get to know someone before getting too serious, because the lust and infatuation you feel initially are most likely not what you're going to be feeling 10 years down the road. The more time that passes, the harder it will be to pretend issues aren't there....and dont get married.
If you do, you'll get fucked over one way, or another...most likely financially and emotionally..not worth all the trouble.