right on man (mam). your little brother needs to clear his head. stay away from everything for a while. i am sure many can work it out in there own way. some take longer than others. i thought i could go back to smoking weed about 3 month after 30 days locked up that cost me about $10,000. that running around looking for weed, and trying to find the best deal reminded me to much of chasing that other shit. was about a year before i was comfortable, and felt in control enough to light up. now i get stressed which is a big trigger for me, weed dose the trick.
you want to do him a favor get him the book
rational recovery by jack trimpey. none of that shit about havening a disease, and being addict for the rest of his life. no 12 steps bullshit. no sitting listening to a bunch of people sitting in a room talking about what they used to do when they got high. hell that shit alone made me want to go get high. thats just my opinion.