Grandma is being a b!tch..

purplekitty7772008 said:

Grandma's can be bitches you guys.

Sorry I am the only one on RIU who is
cursed with her.

Trust me, she IS money hungry. She stole over $20,000
from my sister when both of her parents died from my sisters

trust fund. Then she tells the whole family my sister owed it
to her for taking care of her because of her parents death.

Now no one likes my sister, because "sweet" ole grandma
never lies, and "isn't" money hungry. Bullshit.

If she can get extra money from you, she will. I just don't understand
why she would start saying empty lies to get an already "paid" bill
paid. She is just mad because she thinks I was lying to her and I

wasn't. I was really broke.
I am going to give her the money.

But I just don't like how she lied to me just to get it. She could have
asked. Why would she need to lie? She knows I would give it to her

if she just asked. I try not to get in her way because she is bitter. I
buy my own groceries, and she even complains about that.

and I will be moving out as soon as its possible.

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uh huh

how old r u? surely u should be paying rent or soming now anyway?

sorry, but y should ur grandma pay ur whole way? go and get a job

Lol...just like clockwork. The thread is bumped and the keyboard warriors come ridin in.

juststartin said:

how old r u? surely u should be paying rent or soming now anyway?

sorry, but y should ur grandma pay ur whole way? go and get a job

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where does it say any of what you just posted? please quote the part where it says she doesn't pay rent. how about the part where grandma pays the whole way. or the part where she has no job. please, i'm dying to read it.

For the morons who continue to fight this issue...I thought I'd post a few excerpts about "Evil" grandmothers from around the interwebz...enjoy..

Hi, my grandmother moved in with me 3 1/2 years ago after both my parents died. They were her main caregivers until their death. My grandmother moved in with me cuz she really had nowhere else to go. she can't live alone because she can't do all things for herself. she nearly burned my home to the ground her first week with us so we had to make a no cooking unless someone is with you rule. anyway, my issue is this. she is not a nice person and it is driving me crazy. she is 79 and has a 45 year old "friend" that she gives money to. she talks so bad about DH and me to him and tells him that we are mean to her and she feels like she is in prison. She goes to the senior center every M-F and we take her shopping as needed. My DC are 3 and 4 and she favors my DS more than my DD which hurts my heart cuz my mom always told me that she favored her brother over her. my grandmother goes through my things when i am not home. I caught her going through my mail when she thought i left the house. she lies about everything. she is also a hoarder. her room and bathroom are so cluttered. it seems unhealthy, but she 'needs' everything.

I want to put her in an assisted living facility, but she will hear none of it. she said that she will not leave and cries about how they will take all her money and she won't have any left. I have no love for my grandmother. i don't treat her bad, but i resent what she did to my mom. I am convinced that my mom died because she didn't want to be alone with my grandmotherwithout my dad to help her. to be honest i would never visit her if i put her in a home and i really don't care what happens to her.

the issues are really pretty deep and i am sure i will be ripped apart by most of you, but i just wanted to vent this out. I am so moved by reading some of these posts about how some of you care for your parents/g'parents and I wish i felt that way, but i never have and never will.

thanks for listening....

To contextualize my grandmother, we all call her "the Godfather." Last Passover she sat at the head of my parents' extra long table draped with cousins, aunts and uncles, wore sunglasses through the entire dinner and did not say one word. Her favorite saying echoes Machiavelli: "It is better to be respected than loved." She can't stand Todd, ever since she convinced herself that he didn't want to sit next to her at Rosh Hashanah dinner two years ago. As a result she no longer kisses him or me hello at family functions.

Biggravy22 said:

To contextualize my grandmother, we all call her "the Godfather." Last Passover she sat at the head of my parents' extra long table draped with cousins, aunts and uncles, wore sunglasses through the entire dinner and did not say one word. Her favorite saying echoes Machiavelli: "It is better to be respected than loved." She can't stand Todd, ever since she convinced herself that he didn't want to sit next to her at Rosh Hashanah dinner two years ago. As a result she no longer kisses him or me hello at family functions.

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you need to get a job and move out. learn how to be an adult and take care of yourself. quit mooching off your granny.

I don't speak to my mom anymore, and it's been great.Her granddaughter wants nothing to do with her, either.Mom lost that privilege through her own stupid actions.She's not a nice grandma, either.When you get out of your grandma's house purp,just don't speak to her anymore.You will be amazed at how the quality of your life will improve without her geriatric bullshit.

Biggravy22 said:

Lol...just like clockwork. The thread is bumped and the keyboard warriors come ridin in.

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lmfao!!!!!

does she totally not notice all the pot growing?

That sucks. If i were you i'd move out, that way she can't threaten you anymore. Same thing use to happen here.

at first i was going to be like "you need to be straight w her and tell her that you dont appreciate being threatened "and give her the money since it sounds like she keeps the rain off your back. but the more i read it sounds like trash. i want my 5 min back...

bdomina said:

at first i was going to be like "you need to be straight w her and tell her that you dont appreciate being threatened "and give her the money since it sounds like she keeps the rain off your back. but the more i read it sounds like trash. i want my 5 min back...

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If it sounds like trash, why even comment?

You're not going to get your five minutes back so get over it
and go do something to keep yourself busy.