He Has A Daughter.

Urca

Urca

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fdd2blk said:
so defensive.

try to relax a little.

it was YOU who said "why trip". i was simply pointing out the irony. no harm meant.

bongsmilie

would you like the link to my current grow thread?
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no im good, there is irony in that... even in my first post I said that it didnt bother me much, just threw me for a loop
 
olylifter420

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I was happily divorced at 22


racerboy71 said:
omg a kid.. no way, lol... urca, if you're going to be dating a lot of older guys, you'll soon find out that a lot of them have a kid or two some where in this world... i know at my age, it's damn near impossible to find a girl who doesn't have at least one, if they haven't already been married and divorced at least once as well... you've got to either be willing to accept it, or not, but either way, you've got to be honest with yourself and the dude, and everything will be fine..
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Urca

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eh slightly. he's kept her a secret the whole time I was talking to him, but im glad he came clean today
 
olylifter420

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How do you know that he doesnt? you cant assume things



Urca said:
i dont know the story of his life, but who am I to judge? It's a daughter not like he has a gf or a secret wife... And since I dont even know where we are going to go, why trip off a little thing like that?
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del66666

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lol on your other thread you are saying some guy has changed and you hurt.......now you got a guy with a 4 year old kid.........story teller....
 
olylifter420

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what else has he not been keeping from you?

I think you are dumb if you continue to talk to this dude after all this, what did you say, 4 months of talking to him or so... If he hasnt told you till now, it probably means that he doesnt want to talk to you anymore...

I know that cause i have used it before, to get rid a girl that is just to bothersome, i tell em that oh found out today that i got an std, you better get checked! Or, im sorry, i have a wife, i was just trying this fling thing out, thanks to you, now i know i love my wife, lol... works great!



Urca said:
eh slightly. he's kept her a secret the whole time I was talking to him, but im glad he came clean today
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racerboy71

racerboy71

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Urca said:
eh slightly. he's kept her a secret the whole time I was talking to him, but im glad he came clean today
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how long have you been talking to this dude urca?? now a days, i don't think twice if i chick i'm interested in says they have a kid, but i'm much older than you for sure.. but i disagree that you said it was a mistake.. how do you know that is was a mistake?? dude could have been in love with the baby momma and wanted to spend the rest of their lives together, but things do go wrong, doesn't mean it was a mistake..
and i'd just be glad that the guy is upfront with you and told you that he has a kid.. sounds like a pretty standup dude for one thing.. he could have never told you about her as i'm sure you never would have found out, or at least it would have taken a lot of dating before you would have caught on, if ever... just be thankful that the dude feels enough about you that he wanted to be open and honest with you imo..
 
olylifter420

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wow, are you a playah? If you are, then why are you complaining about being hurt? Obviously you dont consider the other persons feelings by talking to 3 different dudes, yet you complain when your feeling get hurt cause of a dude that hurt your heart!

pRetty selfish if you ask me



Urca said:
hey actually its one of three guys smartie pants... the main guy who hurt me im pretty much just trying to bury the feelings. this is guy number two
https://www.rollitup.org/toke-n-talk/446061-so-i-got-date-tomorrow.html
check the first post for proof. please and thank you
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Urca

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racerboy71 said:
how long have you been talking to this dude urca?? now a days, i don't think twice if i chick i'm interested in says they have a kid, but i'm much older than you for sure.. but i disagree that you said it was a mistake.. how do you know that is was a mistake?? dude could have been in love with the baby momma and wanted to spend the rest of their lives together, but things do go wrong, doesn't mean it was a mistake..
and i'd just be glad that the guy is upfront with you and told you that he has a kid.. sounds like a pretty standup dude for one thing.. he could have never told you about her as i'm sure you never would have found out, or at least it would have taken a lot of dating before you would have caught on, if ever... just be thankful that the dude feels enough about you that he wanted to be open and honest with you imo..
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since like the last week of april... he was hella trying to get at me but i kept saying no, finally when i started warming up to it, he played along for a bit but then went and got a gf. they broke up, ever since been trying to fix things with me....
 
Urca

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olylifter420 said:
wow, are you a playah? If you are, then why are you complaining about being hurt? Obviously you dont consider the other persons feelings by talking to 3 different dudes, yet you complain when your feeling get hurt cause of a dude that hurt your heart!

pRetty selfish if you ask me
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The first dude is the only one I truly want. But since he is pretty much out of the picture, I have dude two and three... Three doesnt want a relationship, but does want to take me out on a date, etc... Dude two played me and I thought he was out of the picture until he tried to make up for it... so it wasnt planned and Im not playing them against each other. Its just circumstance

The first dude is hurting me... at the first word from him I'd drop everyone else. But he doesnt want to date me. He also told me from the beginning to go talk to and kiss other people

Dude two has hurt me before and is trying to make up for it. We're thinking about dating we dont know.

I just met dude three, he doesnt want to date me but is really nice...
 
Dizzle Frost

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racerboy71 said:
how long have you been talking to this dude urca?? now a days, i don't think twice if i chick i'm interested in says they have a kid, but i'm much older than you for sure.. but i disagree that you said it was a mistake.. how do you know that is was a mistake?? dude could have been in love with the baby momma and wanted to spend the rest of their lives together, but things do go wrong, doesn't mean it was a mistake..
and i'd just be glad that the guy is upfront with you and told you that he has a kid.. sounds like a pretty standup dude for one thing.. he could have never told you about her as i'm sure you never would have found out, or at least it would have taken a lot of dating before you would have caught on, if ever... just be thankful that the dude feels enough about you that he wanted to be open and honest with you imo..
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yur so right...i quit banging girls with kids after an unknown 4 yr old woke me up with slap to the face at 5:30am.
 
olylifter420

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who said playing them against each other? You are being selfish by not giving each individual their own time... and if you did do that, for them, i really think you are wasting your time... There are 300 million people in the US, if you are from the US, so why so worried about dudes that you have doubts about?

If you are complaining about being hurt right now and you havent slept with the one that just wants to take you out, and eventually you do, all you are doing is setting yourself up for more hurtness, lol! That date thing is all about the cookie that you got, you know that...

and for dude 2, he just wants a pity fuck from you.. thats all, he is going to play the im hurt card and well i was thinking about you the whole time, or something along those lines...

so your circumstances suck... There are plenty of sausages out there willing to give you a fair shot as long as you are willing to do the same


Urca said:
The first dude is the only one I truly want. But since he is pretty much out of the picture, I have dude two and three... Three doesnt want a relationship, but does want to take me out on a date, etc... Dude two played me and I thought he was out of the picture until he tried to make up for it... so it wasnt planned and Im not playing them against each other. Its just circumstance
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racerboy71

racerboy71

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i'd forget about dude two if he's already hurt you this early on.. doesn't sound like a good way to start off a relationship imo.. dude number three sounds nice, even if he says he doesn't want a relationship now, if you two hang out together for awhile, things may change.. he may get a chance to see just how cool you are and what not, and want to spend more time with you.. stranger things have happened..
 
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unless hes some pyscho women beater he will still fuck his baby mom.


just wanted to put that out there lol
 
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