Frank Nitty
Well-Known Member
Welcome back to the club!!!My Dad let me grow inside at 14 . That was 1980 . Stopped between 1996 - 2015 ( kids ) . Im back .
Welcome back to the club!!!My Dad let me grow inside at 14 . That was 1980 . Stopped between 1996 - 2015 ( kids ) . Im back .
Hey there, another old fart here. Only got white chin hairs but I earned every one. Lucky to live in N.M. medical state, and been treating my chronic pain with "good" dispensary weed but was fortunate enough to try "GREAT" cannabis from a friend and grower!! Just here learning what i can.Just curious.. Started in the 70's. Then stopped until I had severe pain issues. More tricks now and more stuff to fuck ya up. Great hobby.
Welcome to our little band of misfits.Hey there, another old fart here. Only got white chin hairs but I earned every one. Lucky to live in N.M. medical state, and been treating my chronic pain with "good" dispensary weed but was fortunate enough to try "GREAT" cannabis from a friend and grower!! Just here learning what i can.
Is NM a legal grow state? It’s great that you have med there, it’s much better than junk pain meds. I got off that trash a cpl years back In favor of weed. Glad that you joined up.Hey there, another old fart here. Only got white chin hairs but I earned every one. Lucky to live in N.M. medical state, and been treating my chronic pain with "good" dispensary weed but was fortunate enough to try "GREAT" cannabis from a friend and grower!! Just here learning what i can.
I’ve still got about 3 months but they haven’t kicked me out.8 months until I can post in this thread proper legal like.
8 months until I can post in this thread proper legal like.
Kids...I’ve still got about 3 months but they haven’t kicked me out.
LOL, I just turned 47, is that close enough?Kids...
I can barely remember 47LOL, I just turned 47, is that close enough?
Can't you afford that damn car yet?! Lol
Anthony/Canutillo guy here originally. You north or south? Bievenido, vato.Hey there, another old fart here. Only got white chin hairs but I earned every one. Lucky to live in N.M. medical state, and been treating my chronic pain with "good" dispensary weed but was fortunate enough to try "GREAT" cannabis from a friend and grower!! Just here learning what i can.
Mamma died a couple of three years ago. She had moved into a trailer between Sister's and our house a few years before that. The old house was still full of her stuff, as well as the trailer. The hurricane wrecked both. Sister took very little, and when the scrappers were coming for the trailer, my wife took all sorts of crap. We just now got a shed, so it's slowly getting out of my media room. Soon I will be able to lay on the couch without stacking stuff on the floor.Why You Should Ask Your Children If They Want Your Stuff, they may view your treasures as junk.
"Much has been said about the large transfer of wealth from baby boomers to their Generation X, Gen Y and millennial children and grandchildren. But money isn’t all that’s being transferred to the younger generations.
Boomers — particularly those who are downsizing to smaller residences — are also lovingly passing along tons of mementos, such as curio cabinets, lawn ornaments, faded heirlooms and tchotchkes. Are you handing off your “stuff” to your kids and grandkids, or planning to leave it to them in your will? Perhaps you’ve already made a list of who will get what.
While it may be true that downsizing means you don’t have room for your coffee mug collection, lamps from a bygone era or various knickknacks, don’t assume the younger generations will gladly take and cherish them the way you did. Instead, the odds are they:
• Don’t want your stuff.
• Don’t need it.
• Don’t have room for it.
In fact, though it may be hard for you to accept, chances are they’ll think that many of your hand-me-downs are, well, undesirable. Face it: Your taste is not their taste. And don’t assume they’ll want it after you give them the backstory: “This was Grandpa’s, and he had it in his house for 50 years!” They might accept it to be polite but have other thoughts about its value.
So, before you say to yourself, “This represents my life, and I need to have it preserved as a legacy for my heirs,” here’s what I suggest: Have an open, candid conversation with your heirs and offer to provide your stuff to them. Here’s what will happen:
• If they want it, they’ll tell you.
• If they don’t want it, either they’ll tell you or you’ll be able to see it in their eyes or through the slowness of their response.
Should the latter be the case, sell what you can at auction or consignment stores, and donate to charitable outlets such as Goodwill or the Salvation Army the items they’ll take.
Then swallow your pride and put the rest out with the trash."
Edelman Financial Engines. August 27, 2019
When I cleaned out my mom's apt after she went to the nursing home, I put everything in a store and lockit, 13 years later...you guessed it, still there. Probably spent 5 times what the stuff is worth on fees.Mamma died a couple of three years ago. She had moved into a trailer between Sister's and our house a few years before that. The old house was still full of her stuff, as well as the trailer. The hurricane wrecked both. Sister took very little, and when the scrappers were coming for the trailer, my wife took all sorts of crap. We just now got a shed, so it's slowly getting out of my media room. Soon I will be able to lay on the couch without stacking stuff on the floor.
I know who ever cleans out my crap will toss most of it. Even my collection of Grateful Dead concerts.
The old house is down the road about a mile, so we don't get down there very often. After Mamma died, it was tossed twice. She was known to keep a little money on hand, so I guess it was family doing it. After the storm it has been hit hard by looters. No real way to know what was lost. So much junk mixed in. Most of what they took was scrap, so no real loss. Some old farm equipment lost though. {It's Sister's land, and she took off to Denver after the storm. I was trying to deal with my shit, so didn't really check on her stuff}When I cleaned out my mom's apt after she went to the nursing home, I put everything in a store and lockit, 13 years later...you guessed it, still there. Probably spent 5 times what the stuff is worth on fees.