Law enforcement has to have a warrant before they can use FLIR.
Unless their chopper just 'happens' to notice the light signature while they are pursuing a suspect in the area, and they were using IR to follow a suspect's heat image, then they are allowed to use that information in their subsequent investigation.
Same as if they come upon your OD plants while chasing a suspect thru your yard.
If they just 'happen upon' a grow building, and notice the light patterns, THAT is enough for them to start an investigation (checking for odors, pulling your trash, running a drug-dog, checking utility records, sampling sewer waste, etc). When they get enough circumstantial evidence to convince a sympathetic judge to allow a warrant... it's over.
If you've just got a light or 2 in your house, you're prolly fine, other than the fact that your friends know about it and that's how most grows get exposed. (Not saying this about YOU & your friends, obviously)