Ok, your hurt feelings are understandable.
Let me give you my advice. If you are a virgin the first time should not be in the back seat. It should be in something more like a nice hotel (breakfast in bed) or his place (only if it's clean). Some music, some adult beverage, some good smoke, romance, romance, romance.
It sounds to me like he wanted a FWB. If you are ok with that then go for it. I bet he will leave you broken hearted though. But, if I were you I'd wait until the right guy comes along. I bet there are some good catches in your college.
Be kind to yourself and you don't need to rush anything.