Agreed. Talk to your doctor because it's too important to fuck up. But I actually did talk to our Doctor when the misses and I were trying to get knocked up. She told me sperm live in the female's body for up to a week. That's a maximum, not an average.
Question
Sperm: How long do they live after ejaculation?
How long do sperm live after ejaculation?
Answer
from Roger W. Harms, M.D.
The life span of sperm after they're ejaculated depends on the environmental conditions. Sperm ejaculated into a woman's vagina remain alive in the mucus of the cervix and are able to fertilize an egg for three to five days. Sperm ejaculated outside the body usually live only a few hours.
Wiki answers 3-5 days. I'd count on a week, just to be sure.