How long before i tell my new Girl...

smokinheavy79

New Member
So... This has probably come up before... Anyway... Ive been seeing this girl for a few weeks now and although i have no intention of telling her any time soon... When do you think its safe to tell a new girl friend???

I grow in a spare bed room and she asked to see it and a said i had leased it out to a friend to store shit in and thats why it was locked...

Any thoughts???

Thanks > Chris
All I know is, one of the biggest reasons for busted grows, is pissed off women. Be careful...
 

allSmilez

Active Member
never....i do not tell my lady friends anything
I adhere to this NO MATTER WHAT. Girls are not your friends. They react to anger in a different way. EXAMPLE: You and your boy physically fight if it came to it. God forbid, but it does happen. But then you're boys again after a couple days. YOU AND YOUR GIRL FIGHT? Well, unless you're best friends from childhood, that bitch will rat you out in a second and laugh at you in small claims court. She'll tell the judge your dick is small if she thinks it will help her case. I don't care if you got an 8-incher, she will destroy you.
 

xKuroiTaimax

Well-Known Member
I have alot of close male friends that I'd defend to the death, I always end up lending money, covering their back etc- It's guys that I have been screwed over for no reason with and turned out to be complete snakes. But women are bitchy and the can be manipulative and I agree it will often come down to the petty and personal (saying you have a small dick etc)

The simplest thing would have been to tell her from the start- her knowing you can keep things like that from her will make her insecure and defensive- if she's a bitch she'll use it to attack/lecture you for the hell of it. If she doesn't appreciate your openness and honesty if you told her before getting serious, or if she suddenly feels you any less of a good person just because you grow (and she doesn't want to smoke with you!!) is she really someone you want a relationship with? Or is she just the pretty one there for sex?

Find yourself a woman you can trust- who loves and accepts who you are and what you do. You deserve it.
 

smokey mcsmokester

Well-Known Member
The only way I would tell her is if we were to get married and then only after we get married would she find out about it.... First time you piss her off and call it quits guess what? Thew yapper starts running....
 

cannabitch81

Active Member
If i met a guy who grew, i would be thinking jackpot. Even if we broke up i would still have a friend with lots of herb to smoke me out. But im not a psycho who would feel rejected and need to get revenge if someone broke off a relationship. So i guess it all comes down to what type of person she is and if you trust her.
 
So... This has probably come up before... Anyway... Ive been seeing this girl for a few weeks now and although i have no intention of telling her any time soon... When do you think its safe to tell a new girl friend???

I grow in a spare bed room and she asked to see it and a said i had leased it out to a friend to store shit in and thats why it was locked...

Any thoughts???

Thanks > Chris
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Perfextionist420

Well-Known Member
Not saying she is but most of the time they turn out psycho and it's just a matter of time until it shows, then you have to ask yourself do you want her to be able to hold that over your head?
 
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