Cut him off till he pays or put him to work, or borrow his woman for a weekend. I have found that some times the threat of violence is better than the act. Had a guy screwing around so I texted him it had to stop of I would send the credit department to see him, than 2 min later sent him another saying your address is still XXXXXXXX, then I sent another saying if it went to collections it was out of my hands. Well he called me and said he would go to the bank and get me 1/2 today and make arrangments to pay the rest back. Just saying you don't always need the bat.