comparing dudes with women is totally, totally different.
now don't get me wrong, i'm sure you have fine tits and holes
BUT having aforementioned tits and holes is basicly going to guarantee you a dick for the evening, and possibly the steady future.
NOW, take a equally attractive guy, and that may not be true
A cute girl with a good personality is going to get laid much easier than a comparable guy, it's just the way the world works.
go look at any dating site or singles setting and you'll see what I mean, sheerly on the lopsided numbers alone will guarantee you a dick for the evening.
Now of course i'm not downplaying your personality, just the fact that you are still around us toke n talk folk is a testament to your fortitude and character