Sounds like you both need to find some medicinal with a more "chill" quality and relax a little, might I recommend Lavender?
I see both of your points here. Personally, I dealt with the entire process myself, which has taken several months and cost me about $300 including the notary signatures, doctor visit, and fingerprint card.
Times are tough for everyone these days, but these fees are small compared to my medical bills per year, and I am insured well. Please also consider the grand scheme of things and try to realize that medical care is expensive, and so is growing your own medical marijuana once you add it all up. For me, the benefits of this priveledge will far outweigh its costs.
Have a great day everybody and try to be positive on here....we're all in this together, ya know?