I feel disrespected by my friend, about weed

I dont play games like that, she's a good friend, has been for years, she just fucked up this one time. If her friend gives me a decent amount of money, and if I dont have to pay a cover charge, then its good. She pulls this "please smoke me out" thing again though and she will hear it

It's not a game, It's life. It's her party so she can be a bitch and get what she wants?
That has got the be the most trasy thing ever said.

If she want's you to smoke all of the bud with her she should be throwing down half, at least.
You already feel like you're being used, so do what will make you feel better.

I would at least pocket some of it, you're going to want bud another day and you'll regret smoking other people out when you don't have any.

If you were growing or had stacks and could smoke people out on a daily basis then it wouldn't be a problem.

But since that's not the case you gotta be smart about the money you do have.

ganjames said:

If you were growing or had stacks and could smoke people out on a daily basis then it wouldn't be a problem.

But since that's not the case you gotta be smart about the money you do have.

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yeah, tbh im broke, but my mom keeps offering me money, i turn her down, but for this I might have to accept, which i hate. I hate asking for money or for things

just be honest with her, say you cant afford to just smoke people out... maybe offer her a toke or something, and just give them what they pay for. or tell her you'll give her a few tokes but this is the last time, just so you dont come off as a bitch, and if she asks again u have an excuse to bitch her out

Urca said:

I smoked her out cause I figured I wouldnt see her again.. now ill be seeing her two more times, and that kinda pisses me off.

Exactly what she said:
hey hey hey hey! favor to ask of you! Sobasically I was wondering if you wanted to smoke me out? Donald will drop on it but he said since it's mah partaaayyy i should just be abitch and get what I want. whatcha say? lmfao you don't have to but I really want to (x

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that doesnt sound like a friend at all. that is how users talk. she knows u smoked her out last time, so maybe theres a chance u will give her it for free again. she sees the possibility of getting it because u did it before. i say show up at the party with no weed and drink her alcohol for free, since u smoked her out last time

Urca said:

yeah, tbh im broke, but my mom keeps offering me money, i turn her down, but for this I might have to accept, which i hate. I hate asking for money or for things

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URCA, DONT BE FUCKING STUPID!!! Youre a great girl and that girl is NOT your friend if she has the audacity to ask you something like that. And as for being broke... and taking money off your mom for this... is just plain RETARDED! IDK how your relationship with your mother is, but i would never take money my mom works her ass off for, to basically put in my friends poket. My mom would never trust me again, and thats way more important than any friend. I dont say this to hurt your feelings, but it needs to be said! I gaurantee she's making fun of you to her other friends, and saying something like "she'll do anything i ask" or "shes desperate, thats why she does what i want" If your gonna spend your moms money on weed... at least make it for yourself. Not on some little bitch. Think about it. And you say you'll do it this time, but if she does it again.... your done. I have a feeling that this has been said before a few times. Get your brain back in your head before youre the laugh of the party.

This is the first time she ever did it. im not desperate or anything, but this just puts me in an awkward position. Btw, I would hate to take my mom's money. And I know if the shoe was on the other foot she would come through, she is a very good friend, kind, I just think she let her dumbass friend talk her into something

Fast times at Ridgemont High. A modern telling.

dont do it. shell think that YOU think its ok and she wont stop... been there done that myself.

lol this is all so stupid, i know, but fuck, i cant help how things play out

Urca said:

I smoked her and her friend out about two weeks ago. Cost me $20. I also fed them and etc. Then she asked me to get weed for her party, I said cool, you and your friends need to drop this time, I dont have cash (plus didnt wanna smoke them out twice in a row). So today she sends me a message asking me if I could cover the majority of it, her friend would drop like 5 bucks... yet she wants a dub, from my dealer, and her reasoning is that since it is her party, she gets what she wants...
Idk why, makes me feel hella disrespected, like she thinks Ill smoke her out whenever she wants, like I have disposable money like that...

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i think you should take a chill pill.

the party's at her house. you want to smoke at HER place, yet want HER to pay for it.

fuck that.

take care of business. take some weed but YOU decide who's gonna smoke.... tell your friend come here a sec, hide in a bedroom, take a few hits, go back out into the party....

sketchy?? yes, but if you light up outside you kinda have to pass it to everybody.

your friend should feel disrespected, having a party, inviting you, and then having you bitch about something so simple....

wtf just tell her you don't have 20 for a sack so you can't supply. I'm guessing your a bit younger than I, but back in the days when we used to do the house party thing, it was no trouble to get a few people to chip in on an half oz or whatever and smoke out the whole party, or at least the people who were cool.
Unless the party is wack as fuck I'm sure you'll find at least 4-5 people who want to chip in.

Urca said:

lol this is all so stupid, i know, but fuck, i cant help how things play out

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yes you can. If you live for you things will turn out exactly how you want. PERIOD.

Urca said:

This is the first time she ever did it. im not desperate or anything, but this just puts me in an awkward position. Btw, I would hate to take my mom's money. And I know if the shoe was on the other foot she would come through, she is a very good friend, kind, I just think she let her dumbass friend talk her into something

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If shes a real good friend... or even a friend at all, You should tell her what kind of position she put you in... And if she is a friend... She would understand and apologize. And if youre feeling that way about taking your moms money in general, how do you think you would feel if you took her money for your friend. Probably alot more!

Urca said:

I smoked her and her friend out about two weeks ago. Cost me $20. I also fed them and etc. Then she asked me to get weed for her party, I said cool, you and your friends need to drop this time, I dont have cash (plus didnt wanna smoke them out twice in a row). So today she sends me a message asking me if I could cover the majority of it, her friend would drop like 5 bucks... yet she wants a dub, from my dealer, and her reasoning is that since it is her party, she gets what she wants...
Idk why, makes me feel hella disrespected, like she thinks Ill smoke her out whenever she wants, like I have disposable money like that...

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hella bitches around here are like that in nor-nor-cal.... so many growers they don't even buy weed they just hitch up with a grower....it's pretty sad and pathetic if you ask me...buy /grow your own damn weed bitches!! unless you're a good wife/gf then you deserve it

Go smoke her out and then eat all her food and then ask to use the bathroom go take a big dump in the reservoir of the toilet -it's called an upper decker- Then try to get whatever guy she was interested in to bang you or at least let you blow him.- grab a pair of panties out the hamper on your way out for the panty sniffers thread- If you do this she won't ask you to do anything else for her-problems solved.

beardo said:

Go and eat all her food take a big dump in the reservoir of the toilet _it's called an upper decker- Then try to get whatever guy she was interested in to bang you or at least let you blow him.

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all solid advice.

i strongly endorse the beardo plan.

UncleBuck said:

all solid advice.

i strongly endorse the beardo plan.

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Message by beardo. Endorsed by uncle buck and gfreeman.