i got into a fight with my gf over bud..........

Cannabolic

Well-Known Member
Then I am wrong and you rule. Just make sure you are honest with yourself. I don't tell you watch out for the repentant for nothing. Their name is myriads.
lol i love ur sarcasm. and that what im doing. i dont wanna lie to her and be like "babii ill never smoke again" cuz i kno i will. and i dont wanna life a life acting like i hating smokers, when i kno i don't. i kno im gunna be one of thoes 80 year old bud smokers. and me and her had a long talk. she actually smokes.......sometimes. its just it was over money and she thought that i was gunna be one of thoes smokers who all they do is smoke, and she is worried about it bring around the kids and being a bad influence. i had to show her that my amout of love for mary jane didnt equal the amount i'd consume. bud she said she wants to smoke with me on 420. so im gunna cop a quarter and get her soooooooo hiiiiiigh lmao:eyesmoke::bigjoint:
 

DJ Crack420

New Member
Leave da bitch..she sounds like to much trouble..unless she got c's or bigger, id toss her ass to da curb.lol jk
 

Arrid

Well-Known Member
I don't even bother arguing with a partner over weed any more.

She can't love you if she wants to change you.
 

likes2grow

Active Member
Here differnet twist from everyone else you mentioned you have not smoked for 2 months to do a drug test. Well with all the stress of school finals and stuff maybe she was bitching not to quite but to give her some to relieve some the stress. You did mention she smokes now and then.
 

easygrinder

New Member
why make the choice between either, what you gotta do my friend is show her that smoking weed isn't going to make you a lazy fucker that wastes your life away, get out more with her, do more things with her and get stoned, tell her its not the drugs that make people lazy its the people in the first place
 

Pedro de Pacas

Active Member
ok, her friends smoke weed and she is mad that all they do is smoke and drink and party. and all she does is go to college and work.
Thats cool if she chooses to focus on school and work. Frankly i'm exactly the same, i'm university student finishing up my last semester and i also work. I'm very serious about school, and i don't fuck around when it comes to assignments. the only difference is that i get high every night and yet i'm living proof that you can do all that and still get good grades. It is all about balance of course.
 

Cannabolic

Well-Known Member
Post Pics.........LOL
i will.......as soon as she lets me take a fuckin picture of her. sometimes she likes to dress up durring sex. she has all these costumes and shit. im gunna try and take a pick the next time she dresses up.
Thats cool if she chooses to focus on school and work. Frankly i'm exactly the same, i'm university student finishing up my last semester and i also work. I'm very serious about school, and i don't fuck around when it comes to assignments. the only difference is that i get high every night and yet i'm living proof that you can do all that and still get good grades. It is all about balance of course.
im glad you are. and do me a favor, never change. your the missing link bud. lol
 

CanadianCoyote

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Ahh... women. They're crazy. Love 'em... but they're absolutely batshit insane. I once made the mistake of having an anti-pot girlfriend. I was in constant fear she'd find out I smoked pot and that she'd dump me because of it. We'd see stoners and she'd start going off about how they're all lazy and stupid... and how weed is evil... and all I could think during those times was "Damn, wish I could go join those guys. They seem like they're having fun."... Eventually, I stopped caring and decided that if I had to hide a part of who I was in order to keep her happy... it wasn't worth it. Then again, I've had girlfriends that don't smoke pot but had no problem with the fact that I did... and I've also had girlfriends who smoked as much or more than me and were so crazy I'd dread talking to them sometimes.

Your girl sounds like she needs to make up her mind. And I don't think the weed is what she has issue with... that's just an easy way to cloake her real gripe in an argument that she thinks sounds less pathetic. She can make you the bad guy and not seem selfish... even if what she wants isn't really too selfish. What I'm saying here is it sounds like she'd like you to pay more attention to her... spend more time with her... keep her at the constant center of your attention. That sort of thing. The weed is just a way of making her argument seem more reasonable... because in her head, she knows it's unreasonable to want all the attention all the time.

That's just my theory on that... but it's a game lots of girls play....
 

Cannabolic

Well-Known Member
yea, we just broke up. she was on sum shit like i need my space n wtvr. and im like well fuck take all the space u want bye. man fuck that, i got better things to do then to fuck around with some girl who don't kno what the fuck she want
 

Cannabolic

Well-Known Member
Sorry to hear. Even if its a better thing to break up, it still sucks and hurts.
yea it sucks, but u know what, im good. i mean im tight, i love her but obveously she dont love me so im good. im gunna be ok. but thanks alot
 

petrushka

Well-Known Member
It is hard to tell what is really going on with you and your gf Cannabolic. But from what I read I am getting the feeling that you are making a mistake.

It seems that you are stubbornly suppressing your common sense. You are looking for support here and will find it never mind what you do because you found yourself a community of potheads who are trying to appear cool pretending they don't give a fuck about girls. But in reality nobody here really gives a fuck about you. Your girlfriend probably does though whatever you say here about her.

Forget the forum man! You are just using it to distract yourself from reality, as you do pot. Light up and think! It is your life. Only you can decide. Only you care. Or do you?
 

Delusional

Well-Known Member
If I didnt know better I would say you're really his girlfriend trying to secretly plant your agenda into his head. I declare shenannigans. It's a conspiracy!

But no, really, the man likes the way his life is and the woman is trying to change him. It is as simple as that. You're arguing that he's making a mistake? Yeah, must be a real mistake wanting to be happy with someone not trying to change you.....

I've been with the same woman now for nine years. I love her, she loves me, and there are no issues. She is not a smoker yet has no issues with the fact that I am. It's never the subject of debate, and we're perfectly happy. There is nothing wrong with wanting that....

/facepalm

and you're here trash talking potheads? why the hell are you even a member? :confused:

lol
 

CanadianCoyote

Well-Known Member
I love being told who I do and do not care about. Tell me some more! :bigjoint: ... I have a general interest in the wellbeing of all peoples, so why wouldn't I try and give someone who is hurting some honest and heartfelt advice? Bitches are CRAZY. That's a fact. For the most part, the way they act, think and speak is totally batshit.

I am one, so I should know.

From a young age, girls are programmed to be manipulative and indirect... pretty much told that if they're not, they'll never land a man and will be lonely forever. Luckily that doesn't apply to me... because I'm fucked in the head and crave the sexual companionship of chicks and am not interested in men at all... it sorta gives me an interesting standpoint... but yeah. My point is don't try and tell me I don't give a shit... because I do.
 
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