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I understand. However, being agreeable and saying "Yes, i will", then sparing a good thought for all who might watch ... is being supportive of the real person, and discharging the obligation to pray. Jmo. cn

cannabineer said:

I understand. However, being agreeable and saying "Yes, i will", then sparing a good thought for all who might watch ... is being supportive of the real person, and discharging the obligation to pray. Jmo. cn

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yeah i just made it as believable as possible for everyone elses sake, im not selfish enough to deny my grandmother something simple thats going to make her happy. and imo its the thought that counts sometimes i guess.

HellaBlunts said:

its one of the things ill have to work at the hardest, she called me today asking for prayers, and im in another state for my anniversary and i couldnt deny her on the phone, but how do you pray to something you dont believe in? especially when it means so much to them and others around her...

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Just believe that she believes , and that it will help her just hearing you do it . It will bring her a lot of joy . I Really understand what your saying , just be as supportive of her as can be regardless . I had a few conflicting moments with my grandma during her last years with us and they were along the same lines , still feel guilty about being that way even being right doesn't help . Focus on your love for her and draw strength from that .