I need to fall OUT of love!

unforgiven1420 said:

if your using the word love after a week (i don't care how "intimate" it was) you've got some serious problems bro. and imo you should never second guess yourself for having respect for a woman as you did. props for that. good luck sounds like you fall way too easy to me.

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ststepen420 said:

well theres an old saying that goes like this....."treat her like dirt and she'll stick to you like mud" now i cant remember where i heard it but have found it to be true more often than not. At first i showered them with attention and love and the relationships never really lasted or were fulfilling. Then i got to the point where i stopped trying and ive found that for me it just makes them want me even more. I dont call for days, i forget things im supposed to remember, i refuse to utter the words i love you but the relationships are much better.

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ststepen420 said:

well theres an old saying that goes like this....."treat her like dirt and she'll stick to you like mud"

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Bombadil said:

She probably has more respect for you since you stopped her. She might see you as a more respectful person who is in it for a relationship, not just sex.

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puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:

So ive been talking to this girl for about a week now. We went to the movies sat and met each other for the first time and really hit it off. I went back to her place. We stayed up late but I still kept it cool and we only kissed. I stayed sunday too. We made out all day, while being bums and watching movies and whatever. We really got to know each other and couldnt keep each others eyes/hands/lips off each other... We end up going to bed and fooling around. We went from making out to her losing control an dgetting on top of me. But get this, For some reason i dont follow through and she inreturn thanks me for stoping her. I instantly had blue balls and didnt get rid of them for 2 days....Ouch.

Well now She isnt texting me like crazy like b4 the weekend but she is still showing me lots of intrest. She is an awesome chick and we relate on a silly amount of things. I really like her, and I havent liked anyone like this for about 3 years.

Heres the problem. I dont know if i can take it! All i really want to do is smother her with affection but I know thats not going to look good on my part. Guys are supposed to act like guys. Also im begining to wonder if I should have had sex with her on sunday. We had a crazy intimate day and to not act on her jumping on me and riding me...I think i could have offended her somehow.

Guys im crazy for this girl and Im really losing my mind!

....Did i mention she was a tall athletic natural blond, with blue eyes? Yeah im head over heallllssssss

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funkdocKT said:

"you dont always have to fuck her hard...in fact, sometimes that not right to do" (c) Tenacious D

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The Son of Man said:

If she is as pretty as you make her sound---you have to be down right hardcore---I mean really degrade her---and then she will respect you.

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funkdocKT said:

the unexpected pop shot to the face (combined with the camera phone picture taking) will usually bring a girl that thinks highly of herself down a couple notches...

...but the unexpected creampie "your pregnant!!!!!!" surprise will ruin that star cheerleaders prom

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Louis541 said:

Punch her in the fuckin head till she falls asleep. Then leave. No harm done, (To you)

No but seriously, if you like her then go for it. Why not? You should definatly have sex with her (Unless you think you two will lose something if you do)

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puffpuffPASSEDOUT said:

See this is what i was goign for. I had just met her for the first time and didnt want to ruin anything. She is very aggresive so she is the one who started the sex tease. It ended after I was beginning to take her clothes off. She said "Wow what am I doing here" "Im not usually like this, I cant control myself!". Naturally I Feel we are going to have sex eventually, so I stop and act guy who respects her...And doesnt want her to assume he was after one thing.

But at the same time I wonder if she really wanted me and us having sex would have been the better. Im totally blowing my own mind over this girl and I hate it! Why am i being such a little bitch! I need to man up and let her come to me! Damnit...Damn the blue eye'd devil! lol

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