mygirls
Medical Marijuana (MOD)
bring her over to your place show her your grow and tell her, with this baby i can buy you all the dimonds a girl can ever want.. would you be mine.......LOL
I Reall want her !
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Jer La Mota
Well-Known Member
maybe she waited and nothing happened ..
if she's comfortable talking about painful situations and such, its an obvious sign she trusts you ..
Rarely girls go after guy ...... you have to seize that opportunity and make some progress ..
mygirls
Medical Marijuana (MOD)
mine came after me.i move to overgo and she followd me, well 8 months later she found me.. um must be what im packing....LOL... LMFAO hahahahahahahaha
That 5hit
Well-Known Member
get your money up
and take her out somewhere
thats the biggiest ice breaker ever
just go to her and say "can i take you out somewhere..." pause" ...."on a date" she must know and understand that its a date
now dig this when you pick her up if she dresses up (all it need to be is something differant then what she had on early)
and she puts on perfume...... then its on
that means she's trying to impress you
take her out to eat and to bowl(miniture gulf is even beter)... no movie! and i mean NO MOVIE!!!!
a place to eat is cool because that mean you can talk and sit across from her
bowling and mini gulf is great because its fun and noone really knows how to play
keep it simple lame chick like lame shit.. never the movie for the first few dates. not untill after you hit it. and i men hit it good
movie on the first date is a wate of time
try to build chemistry keep your body moving and keep talking
if you live in a big city take her to the zoo or meusim they have lots of free days if not free all the time
and take her out somewhere
thats the biggiest ice breaker ever
just go to her and say "can i take you out somewhere..." pause" ...."on a date" she must know and understand that its a date
now dig this when you pick her up if she dresses up (all it need to be is something differant then what she had on early)
and she puts on perfume...... then its on
that means she's trying to impress you
take her out to eat and to bowl(miniture gulf is even beter)... no movie! and i mean NO MOVIE!!!!
a place to eat is cool because that mean you can talk and sit across from her
bowling and mini gulf is great because its fun and noone really knows how to play
keep it simple lame chick like lame shit.. never the movie for the first few dates. not untill after you hit it. and i men hit it good
movie on the first date is a wate of time
try to build chemistry keep your body moving and keep talking
if you live in a big city take her to the zoo or meusim they have lots of free days if not free all the time
Jer La Mota
Well-Known Member
maybe you did something for her that meant a lot to her , or she saw something in you ..
it's not about the actions themselves, its about how they're perceived by the other person..
Xrtnfx
Active Member
Been there, fuckin' done that. I've had to hide that shit when she was around (It was ok when she was away). But I couldn't keep away from lighting up when she went to the bathroom or some shit. I mean how do you expect me to watch a chick flick not high? But she knows better, it seeded the distrust plant in our relationship and it grew from there. Made life suck, but I dumped her anyways now I'm getting with a girl that smokes.. much easier.
Jimmy Luffnan
Well-Known Member
In my experience, and from what you have said, you have kind of fucked your chances of a relationship already by lying to her about smoking dope.
You already know that her parents smoke and she believes it has a negative effect 'cause they are fucked up' from it, and I'm sure the reason you know is because at some point you were sniffing around her feelings of smoking dope and how she feels about it and didn't come clean at that point of time, which she will remember and resent you for. Whether or not she can forgive you for this prior to any future you may have is a big ask.
It sounds like you like everything about her that you know about her, and you have chosen to lie to her about the things that she may not like about you. This means that you are not being honest with yourself, and you are simply trying to be whoever she would want you to be, being somebody your not in other words...
Nearly all relationship problems come from trust issues, and you have successfully tripped before the starting line.
If there is any hope for a future for you and her, you need to pull her aside in person and level with her, tell her that you lied to her about still smoking weed, that it has been eating you up badly inside, and that you never want to lie to her again because you care so much about her. Then the ball will be in her court... and she will decide if there is a future for both of you or not, and you will have to respect her decision.
If she says there is no future, live and learn and don't make the same mistake next time around!
If she forgives you, then good luck! (and don't ever lie to her again)
And a parting quote,
Regret for the things we do can be tempered by time,
It's the regrets for the things we don't do that are inconsolable.
~Thomas Banks~
Jimmy.
You already know that her parents smoke and she believes it has a negative effect 'cause they are fucked up' from it, and I'm sure the reason you know is because at some point you were sniffing around her feelings of smoking dope and how she feels about it and didn't come clean at that point of time, which she will remember and resent you for. Whether or not she can forgive you for this prior to any future you may have is a big ask.
It sounds like you like everything about her that you know about her, and you have chosen to lie to her about the things that she may not like about you. This means that you are not being honest with yourself, and you are simply trying to be whoever she would want you to be, being somebody your not in other words...
Nearly all relationship problems come from trust issues, and you have successfully tripped before the starting line.
If there is any hope for a future for you and her, you need to pull her aside in person and level with her, tell her that you lied to her about still smoking weed, that it has been eating you up badly inside, and that you never want to lie to her again because you care so much about her. Then the ball will be in her court... and she will decide if there is a future for both of you or not, and you will have to respect her decision.
If she says there is no future, live and learn and don't make the same mistake next time around!
If she forgives you, then good luck! (and don't ever lie to her again)
And a parting quote,
Regret for the things we do can be tempered by time,
It's the regrets for the things we don't do that are inconsolable.
~Thomas Banks~
Jimmy.
KaleoXxX
Well-Known Member
dude your in the friend zone, youve lied to her and youve been obsessed for too long. it might be a tough pill to swallow now; but your prob just wasting your time. this chick might have had something for you... like three years ago, but your sagging vag messed things up and stuck you in the friend zone
just fuck her mom and get it over with
ok, joking aside, you do need to move on and get over this chick 5hit may be content hiding who he is for a woman; but in my oppinion, that is no way to live
just fuck her mom and get it over with
ok, joking aside, you do need to move on and get over this chick 5hit may be content hiding who he is for a woman; but in my oppinion, that is no way to live
Fisherman Pete
New Member
it sounds like you're stuffed. you either have to come clean, in which case it sounds like she doesn't give two damns about it and won't give you a sympathy shag, or you quit for real, in which case fuck that smoking is for life, not just for christmas!
Benassi
Well-Known Member
Find another chick that smokes. Relationships aren't about finding common ground, that's bullshit. It's about accepting people for who they are. Don't try and change people, people don't change they just act differently. If someone likes smoking weed, then they're gonna like smoking weed. If someone can't accept that... Next. Stop thinking theres only 1 chick like her... Because I guarantee after you have her you'll meet another one.
Get some game... and be confident, not a tool.
Get some game... and be confident, not a tool.
zigzag6
Active Member
poopoo1964
Active Member
Take Bill Clinton to her house and tell her you both never inhaled... LMAO
Jimmy Luffnan
Well-Known Member
Ever heard of a Previa?
Barracuda = 2 in the pink, 1 in the stink.
Previa = 2 in the front, 5 in the back! hahahaha
canniboss
Well-Known Member
Go Sens Go!
Just spend more time with her. One way or the other it'll work out faster.