Hazydat620
Well-Known Member
you are very misinformed too much FOX NEWS you watch. Who said I got a loan for the renovations and they were done right off the bat? You haven't figured it out yet I am a skilled mother fucker in many things and who has never been without a job since I was 14, the only thing I paid for were the materials, and those were paid for in cash by tax returns( i claim 0 all year) and vacation checks, was it my mistake to think my hard work should have paid for those things? 1700 was within our budget UNTIL MY GF HAD A KID AND QUIT HER job to raise the kid, How new was your home mine was a fixer upper, and I bought about 8 months before the shit hit the fan, my home was about the cheapest on the market , unless I wanted to get that 160000 home improvement loan right off the bat, but I'm smarter than most and have more skills than that. I did work after I quit, doing various things finally settling on trimming, which damn, since I'm so good at just about anything I do they they were paying me 20 an hour cash and all the weed I can smoke, then I'm so good even though I only had 1 outdoor grow under my belt I took over a op, and paid me to garden, sweet huh, pretty much chose my own hours and was able to work around her schedule. You really think we get that much in food stamps( couple hundred a month) and our wic is pretty much just milk and cheese nowadays. I made a conscious decision that my family really didn't need the lifestyle we were living before, so I relocated them somewhere it doesn't cost as much to live, and I can stay home do what I do and get to spend every waking minute with my son if I want. I'm sorry you feel like it is your duty to participate in the rat race, but I don't, Hell I would live out in the woods in a yurt and homestead if there was a way to do it without someone wanting something from me, but I don't know a way, only in America. There was no one else on the crew that worked harder than my partner and I, if I wanted my job back all it is is a phone call away. It's a choice u see, and only in America.my home was only 1200 sq. feet BTW.You should have given up her income, the lesser, not yours. $220,000 apparently was too much, tho millions made that mistake. STOP WATCHING HGTV!! They don't show those buyers two years later after buying that $220,000 home and putting $150,000 in "renovations" losing the home to foreclosure because their $65,000/yr income couldn't pay it. Those people get qualified for X amount, so they go and spend every bit of it. A lender qualified me for a $330,000 mortgage, but I'm not even going to consider spending half that. But $1700 a month for mortgage was well within your budget until you quit your job. Taxes went up because of too much government spending, blaming it on Conservatives is silly. The government has to pay their bills or the garbage starts piling up in the streets. I don't see where the incentive was in that incentive plan. I just see a straight hourly rate. I wouldn't have quit, I just would stop working harder than the others. I know what you mean about the difficulty of planning housing expenses. My insurance went from $700 a year to $1700+ in the first year. Home insurance in Florida is outlandish. Many pay more for the insurance than they do for the mortgage. You need to go back to work. Your GF's part time job isn't going to support the three of you, it might not even support just one of you. The postpartum depression was gone 18 months ago. Not marrying the mother of your children just so she can qualify for welfare is shameful. Celebrating the deaths of innocent children is beyond shameful.