i thought this was a female, it had pistils and everything then all of a sudden..

its a male? it was starting to bud and now it looks like the whole thing is gonna be seeds

That's a male.

Yeah that looks like a full on male, not even a hermie

:[ so sad. well atleast i'll have some fresh seeds? -_-

not if its a straight male you wont get anything

you could save all the pollen and try your hand at crossbreeding.....

Isolate it from any other plants you have as they may indeed be female. While the pic is a little grainy and out of focus this male looks to be mature enough to release pollen and could pollinate females. Be careful and try to clean up your grow room with a hepa-type vacuum cleaner and wipe down the walls thoroughly with a mild water+bleach solution. If you see pollen flying grains flying around (looks like yellow dust) if may be too late and the entire grow could be compromised.

lol. i see ballz