I want to say something and then I'm back out. Having a high IQ doesn't justify stirring the pot and being endlessly provocative. That's not "socially inept." It's self-serving and mean. You may not see it as such, but you do recognize something is amiss as you disclaim your "talents" as resulting in "social ineptitude."
I was a member of Mensa as a young adult. I can tell you from experience that you have a
choice to share your unique abilities and vision in a constructive manner (in which people will listen), or in a self-serving manner (where it's about proving you're right even if nobody's listening anymore).
Discretion is the better part of valor. Sometimes it's better to just leave it alone and wait for another opportunity when those who don't march to your drummer might be better inclined to see your perspective. And, when you might have more tools and results to demonstrate the merit of yours. (You haven't even finished a grow with the lights you've spent
countless posts arguing over. Against people who crack the numbers in their sleep, own PAR meters, etc. That alone should make you ashamed of your behavior, not merely "I'm socially inept.").
It seems to me that you delight in coming in and disrupting what you view as the status quo just to elevate yourself to leader status without earning it first. You don't have to earn it because you're special. You have the ability to think through the holes in the status quo. The mental stimulation of debate is more rewarding than the health of the community. And, I agree with
@captainmorgan 's observation that you have a subtle yet very discernible pattern of changing the parameters of the discussion to lead toward more debate rather than closure and understanding. (I saw this when we discussed the "decision tree." I couldn't keep you on topic.).
I think you make some valid points. But they're lost in your quest for never-ending friction. You're going to find yourself banned. It will be justified because ultimately this is a community. It's your responsibility to fit in -- not the community's responsibility to entertain your self-serving need to exercise your intellect.