If you found out your 17 year old boy was having sex.....
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ElDuderino
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Grounding him isn't going to work. Nothing's going to work now he's started. Going to have to tell him how it is so he doesn't get her pregnant. Simple as that really.
stonerboy1
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hell yea i give em a hi and big ass box of condoms
christofeser
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ha.
this brings me back to a time when i was 15.
dont know what laws on sex are for USA, but in the UK is sixteen for Hetro and 18 for Homo.
well i was screwing a girl like, every night, she stayed round for a few days and i'd fuck her a few times a night. so yeah basically i couldnt put my condoms in my fucking bin because my mum always emptied it in the morning, so i kept them in a little fucking cardboard box that held perfume or some shit before. anyway so i racked up like a load of condoms in this box and one day my mum found them. bless her that must have been a shock, her 15 year old having so much sex. she never spoke to me about it. i think she was just happy i was being safe haha.
this brings me back to a time when i was 15.
dont know what laws on sex are for USA, but in the UK is sixteen for Hetro and 18 for Homo.
well i was screwing a girl like, every night, she stayed round for a few days and i'd fuck her a few times a night. so yeah basically i couldnt put my condoms in my fucking bin because my mum always emptied it in the morning, so i kept them in a little fucking cardboard box that held perfume or some shit before. anyway so i racked up like a load of condoms in this box and one day my mum found them. bless her that must have been a shock, her 15 year old having so much sex. she never spoke to me about it. i think she was just happy i was being safe haha.
diemdepyro
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Grounding for sex is avoiding an uncomfortable subject for parent and child. I would bet they are not spending much time in close proximity to one another.
Hypothetically would you give him a pat on the back if he had to pay child support for 18 years. Six month later when he can not afford his H.I V. medicine who is he going to call. Myself I would punish him not for the sex but being indiscreet and caught.
Parents really do not have a guide to child rearing. The term child rearing is inaccurate.
I thought when my oldest child(first child) finished high school , got her college scholarships and was accepted to university my job was done. I gave my wife a high five and partied like it was 1999. We were done! One down and........... We will never be done!
haha what a bunch of extremist assholes. 17 is the legal age in most states for sex.
kings use to take wives at age 14. people use to marry at age 14-15, and have kids..
opposers to this 17 year old having sex are messed up.
my first time i was 15, i've never gotten anyone pregnant my whole life, or gained stds. don't be a fuckin asshole and say shit like that. your being a bitch. your either jealous that your not getting any, or your just a paranoid fuck who thinks if you stick a dick in something AIDS is born.
kings use to take wives at age 14. people use to marry at age 14-15, and have kids..
opposers to this 17 year old having sex are messed up.
my first time i was 15, i've never gotten anyone pregnant my whole life, or gained stds. don't be a fuckin asshole and say shit like that. your being a bitch. your either jealous that your not getting any, or your just a paranoid fuck who thinks if you stick a dick in something AIDS is born.
diemdepyro
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Actually Its not about the sex it is the ramifications. You have not "gotten anyone pregnant my whole life, or gained stds". A great number of people do....
you are just a statistical anomaly
like i said, extremist. use that fear to control your kids.. good job learning that tactic from the goverenment.
i'm not gonna even go into what being overbearing does to children, we all know it drives children away from their parents.
diemdepyro
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Posts are pretty telling about ones true nature. The anonymity of the internet allows peoples intermost private feelings about their own childhood come to the surface.
This a quite interesting thread about human nature.
This a quite interesting thread about human nature.
raeman1990
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same, i'd had sex by 17, so in how ever many years that my son has sex (be it 17 or 30) i'd talk to him about std's, and babies, then maybe give him a high 5 or knuckle pound
NomadicSky
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I'd buy him some condoms and tell him about std's.
greenleaftoker
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Yeah, someone needs parenting lessons... Perhaps you should show her this discussion lol.
Gryphonn
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That's bad thing to do...What would you do if you found out that your 17 year old boy was having sex?
My sister in law found out her son was having sex and she grounded him. Can you belive that? Grounded for sex.
I would have taken that opportunity to have a lengthy discussion about disease and preventative measures. When I found out she grounded him I was really stunned, how stupid.
I bet that boy has a girl pregnant before he's 20.
I got grounded when I was 13 because my father caught me in his bed with a 16 year old. I was her little sex toy that she could teach stuff to. My parents even made her come around one night for a lecture about pregnancy and STDs.
It was probably the most embarrassing time of my life. They didn't know it, but she already had a 12 month old son, and was going out with a 17 year old guy...who dropped her off for the little lecture my parents had planned.
Can you imagine the shit that I went through at school that week?
I went from being the stud with the 16 year old girlfriend, to the loser with the freaky parents in 24 hours!!! All that street cred and peer respect that some kids never get, gone because your parents are freaks and want to LECTURE your sex teacher!!!
It took me months to get over it!!
I would NEVER punish my kids because they had sex. That would set you up to have some really strange ideas about sexuality and love in your future years I reckon.
Before my kids started having sex, they knew about STDs, HIV and protection in all its forms. I think they've done alright. The two oldest are in their 20's and both are healthy, single and have no children.